Devotional Sex provides many rewards for a woman ...

Better sex (ie what happens before an orgasm):

Many more orgasms:


Builds and maintains intimacy and connection:


You enjoy all of this while making your partner just as happy as you:


Combine all of the above and love blooms.

First exploring Devotional Sex can be like having a second honeymoon. And as Devotional Sex keeps the spark and passion alive, this is a second honeymoon which can last for years.

 
 

The rest of this page looks at what powers Devotional Sex. Then after this:



You will then see how everything comes together to create a dynamic which can be easily lived and is enjoyed by your partner as much as it is enjoyed by you.

 
To practice Devotional Sex both you and your partner must commit to doing your role.

It's like riding a tandem (2 person) bicycle - it only happens when you both agree to get on the bike, and if one gets off then the ride is over. And just like doing a tandem bike ride, to do Devotional Sex the first step is for you to both agree to start doing it and for how long you will do it for (after which you return to normal).

It will sometimes require some effort to fulfill your role, especially when it's all new to you. But on the whole it is so easy to do that many women find that that their new role very quickly starts to feel natural - it becomes a new normal.

Because your role has you feeling pampered and special I've called a woman who is doing Devotional Sex a Princess.

At first the concepts of Devotional Sex may seem confronting because talking about sex is often taboo and the standard ways of thinking and feeling about sex are not questioned. So reading this overview, and then stating to explore Devotional Sex, may initially need some courage. But once you have taken the plunge the rewards soon follow.
 
 
Your partner's role is challenging - he needs to agree to be honor-bound to keep his commitments and this takes mental strength. With Devotional Sex he proudly kneels in front of his Princess and devotes himself to her - and thus I've called him a Knight.

Each role has four key commitments. The unique dynamic of Devotional Sex is what happens when these are all in place. So this overview presents these commitments and shows how each works in practice and how they all interact with each other.
 
 
The starting point and powerhouse of Devotional Sex is his first commitment:

• He commits to having far fewer ejaculations than he used to.

The obvious consequence of him having fewer ejaculations is that he will become very eager for sex! He will be wanting it all of the time!

Some might find this fun for a short time, but for most women this would very quickly become a burden.
 
 
For Devotional Sex to be livable and fun for you some balance is needed so that you don't feel pressured into having sex all of the time. So when he practices Devotional Sex:

• He commits to fulfilling all your sexual and sensual wishes
                     (within what he is willing to do).

Part of the reason this technique is called Devotional Sex is that he is devoted to you and will do all that you wish! If you want a back rub or to receive oral sex then your wish is his command!

But before looking at what you can have him do, where this makes the biggest difference is when you wish for nothing to happen or activity to end.
 
 
When in bed, even if he has not ejaculated for many days and is very eager for activity, if you wish for nothing to happen or nothing more than a cuddle, then as he has committed to fulfill your wishes he accepts that no sexual activity will happen.

As he has fewer ejaculations than before, most sexual activity will now end without him ejaculating. Without ejaculating he is likely to want to go on forever. So him committing to fulfill your wishes also means that when you want an activity to end it does.

You don't need to act or feel dominant when it is challenging for your Knight to do as you wish. If, for example, during sex you say "that's all for now" and he really wants activity to continue, then, as your Knight, he is honor-bound to fulfill your wish. It's up to him to find the mental strength to force himself to do this.

And if he hasn't ejaculated for many days and that bedtime he has a very strong desire for some sexual activity, and your wish is nothing more than a cuddle, it's up to him to force himself to accept this and not to pester you to change your mind.

You will usually be able to tell when something is challenging for your Knight. It's when he does as you wish at these times that you will most strongly feel that the control he has given you is very real and he really is your devoted Knight.
 

So by having the Knight not ejaculate very often Devotional Sex energizes him so that he is always eager for activity and for activity to last as long as possible.  And balance is restored by him giving you control over when activity won't happen, when it will, and when activity ends.
 
 
Your Knight fulfilling all your sexual and sensual wishes also means that when you want some sexual activity to happen it will.

Once again you don't need to act or feel dominant when you ask your Knight to do something. This is because his built up erotic energy usually means that he is eager for activity - any activity - and so to have something happen you just gently say what you want and he will eagerly oblige.

To make this even easier for you Devotional Sex has a collection of Wish Words. Just say any of these words and it is clear to your Knight what you want. And as you only say one or two words it is almost as if he just magically fulfills your wish.

He also fulfills your sensual wishes so you can have him give you a foot, back or body massage whenever you wish.
 
 
Clearly him keeping his first two commitments will sometimes be challenging for him. But what about your commitments? Do you face something similarly challenging?

The first of four things you commit to do in order to practice Devotional Sex isn't too burdensome - as Devotional Sex will only work and continue to happen if you enjoy it much more than 'normal' sex:

• You commit to using the control he has given you to enhance
           YOUR sexual, sensual and intimate life.

With sexual activity you not only decide when it happens, you now have control of what happens (and thus what does not happen), and how it is done. And as he usually doesn't get to ejaculate at the end, you decide when the activity will end, be that after just a few minutes or a few hours.

As well as enhancing your life by receiving pleasures you can enjoy pleasuring your partner  whenever and however you wish.

Note that even though he has giving you control your partner can still make suggestions and requests for activity.

His enthusiasm may inspire you to accept his suggestion, his suggestion may inspire you to have something different happen, or you can decide that nothing will happen.

Most of the time just the fact that he has an erection is enough to let you know that he is keen for activity - any activity - so in practice he doesn't need to say much.

 
I can't say what will work best for you and your partner. But my surveys have found out what happens with most couples who practice Devotional Sex, and this is:

• Intercourse tends to happen about as often as before,
  
  
• Her giving him oral sex either stays about the same or happens a lot less,
  
  
• Him giving her oral sex happens much more often,
  
  
• She has more or, for about half the women, many more orgasms,
  
  
• And, of course, he ejaculates far less often than before.
  
  
• As his erection no longer means that penetration and ejaculation are expected, most couples have many extra sessions each week - some short, some long - which don't include intercourse, and
  
  
• It's not uncommon for these extra sessions to be only or mainly one activity.
  

A day of Devotional Sex could be that in the morning she decides to play with him for a few minutes before they get up, and then at bedtime she allows him to give her oral sex for about half an hour until she has an orgasm and then there is no other sexual activity.

 
With you deciding what happens and how it is done you can guide your partner in how best to bring you to orgasm and have him do this whenever you wish. This is why with Devotional Sex most women orgasm many more times than their partner ejaculates!

 

What works best for each women varies incredibly. For example:

• A few women (of all ages) have decided that intercourse won't happen at all
       - and a few enjoy it four or more times each week,
  
  
• A few women don't like receiving oral sex and so this never happens
         - and a few have him give her oral sex twice a day!
  
  
• Some women never give him any oral sex -
           - whilst just a few give him this once a day, and
  
  
• Some women like having him play with her sex with his hand,
            - whilst some decide that "as I can have him use his mouth whenever I wish,
                why let him use his hand", and so he never or rarely uses his hand.
  

So there is huge variation in what Devotee couples do, and it's up to you to find out how to reach your peak of sexual happiness.
 
 
With Devotional Sex it is usual for her to receive much more oral sex than she gives, and her to have many more orgasms then him. Clearly this is a very unbalanced and unequal sex life!

So why would he be willing or even eager to practice Devotional Sex?