CFNM is when a Clothed Female spends time with a Naked Man.
Within Devotional Sex CFNM is called Affirmation, and this is described in detail in Chapter 9 here.
CFNM
is a category of erotic photos and videos on the Internet. Unlike most
of this Internet porn, the real-life CFNM enjoyed when practicing
Devotional Sex is normally just a Princess and her Knight (ie no other people are present), there is no humiliation involved, and the Knight does not ejaculate at the end.
Having the Knight be naked while his Princess remains fully dressed is a very effective way of establishing a Devotional Dynamic, and then keeping this active.
Because it is so effective, and because with Devotional Sex nothing further need follow,
Affirmation is often the second activity to be enjoyed when a couple
try Devotional Sex for the first time. (The first activity is often the
Knight giving his Princess a foot massage.)
A real-life story where on their first date Michael suggests to Ada that they try Devotional Sex, and Ada agrees and then goes further than Michael had hoped, is here.
When a couple are practicing Devotional Sex the Princess need only say "Reveal"
to have her Knight remove all his clothing. If she decides to keep her
clothing on, they will then enjoy Affirmation for as long as she wishes.
Some Devotee couples may even go as far as having Affirmation become a very common way of being together (when in private).
Princess
Ada enjoyed Affirmation with Michael so much that she made this their
usual way of being together. You can read about all their Devotional
activities in the blog of Ada and Michael.
If all are willing, a Knight can be told to Reveal in front of friends. Sharing and enjoying erotic energy with friends
can be lots of fun, and feel very liberating. The Affirmation in front
of other people might be as far as things go, or it might just be the
start of other activities.
As summarized above, Affirmation can be a common and fun part of Devotional Sex. So an interest in CFNM can be an entry point for Devotional Sex.
