When a woman becomes very
excited and orgasms during intercourse, she often becomes very wet. Devotional
Sex provides an opportunity to celebrate her juices.
In
`normal´ sex, once a woman has had an orgasm during intercourse,
the intercourse will usually continue until the male ejaculates shortly
afterwards. After his ejaculation the male looses interest in further
sexual activity for a while.
Devotional Sex is very different because after a Princess has had an orgasm during Joy,
she will usually end the Joy without allowing her Knight to ejaculate.
As she relaxes after her orgasm, her Knight is still very interested in
further sexual activity.
It
might be the Princess who likes the idea of her Knight lapping her
juices as she relaxes after her orgasm.
Or it might be the Knight who
begs his Princess for a chance to taste her while she is so wet.
Either
way, the last activity of a session can be a mutually relaxing
Pleasure Kiss.
As the Princess has just had an orgasm her clitoris may be so
sensitive that she does not want it kissed or licked.
So in this
Pleasure Kiss the Knight should leave her clitoris alone, and devote his
attention to lower down and to her juices.
Because she is relaxing, he
should be slow and gentle.
Some couples may like the idea of
spending ten minutes or longer with this final Pleasure Kiss.
Initially
the Knight will become very aroused while enjoying his Princess's
juices. But after a while, as his kissing becomes less active, and it
is clear that this is the end of the session's activities, his erotic
energy will start to decline. Eventually he will be as relaxed as
his Princess.
It might take a couple a bit of practice to get this to work. The
Knight needs to find the appropriate manner in which to give the
Pleasure Kiss, and the right rate of moving from active gentle kissing
to only a very few movements.
For
couples who are able to get it `just right´, the use of Ritual
can be a very intimate and powerful way to end a session.