9: The Ritual Command
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Longer sessions of only a Pleasure Kiss
A
normal part of many Devotees' lives will be the times when a Princess
says "Ritual" to enjoy a long and gentle Pleasure Kiss, and no other
sexual activities take place during that session.
Not only are such sessions fun for both, but they strengthen the Devotional dynamic.
Not only are such sessions fun for both, but they strengthen the Devotional dynamic.
Sessions where Ritual is the only activity makes the Devotional dynamic stronger, and can be very enjoyed by both.
A longer session of `Ritual only´ makes a very nice way to wake up, perhaps, for example, on a Sunday morning sleep-in.
With an eager Knight going to bed for a cuddle in the afternoon can be a treat, and this is another time that a longer session of `Ritual only´ could be enjoyed.
And of course the main time that this pleasure is likely to be enjoyed is when going to bed at night.
To acknowledge her Knight's energy, and thank him for his devotion, such sessions may often end with a Devotional Cuddle or just a Calm-Down Cuddle.
As this is felt, by both, as just a nice way to end the session, the Desire holding at the end of the session does not really count as another activity.
So not only does `Ritual only´ include the possibility of ending with some Desire holding, but as discussed in Holding the Knight's hard Desire after Ritual above, it is recommended that most long sessions do end this way.
A Knight will usually enjoy giving a long Pleasure Kiss.
Immediately after giving the Pleasure Kiss he will be very aroused and hoping to enjoy some other sexual activity. But when his Princess indicates that it is the end of the session, he has to accept that she has the power to make him wait till another time.
Cuddling his Princess afterwards becomes a very Knightly moment.
A session where the only activity is a long Pleasure Kiss can make a Princess feel very much like a Princess.
One reason is that, unlike with `normal´ sex, she can enjoy being pleasured by her devoted Knight without feeling that she is then expected to have to pleasure him. A session solely devoted to her receiving pleasure can feel very relaxing and sensuous because she is not distracted by thinking about doing anything else after she finishes the Pleasure Kiss.
Another reason she may feel very much like a Princess is that when it is over she will feel her Knight's desire for other activities, and his acceptance of her power to make him wait.
Cuddling her Knight afterwards is also a special time for her.
A morning or afternoon `just Ritual´
If the session consisting of `Ritual only´ takes place first thing in the morning, or in the afternoon, the Knight will feel energized for the rest of the day. He will be remembering the pleasure of giving the Pleasure Kiss, and he will still be feeling that he wants to enjoy some other activities.
During the rest of the day the Princess can enjoy her Knight's increased eagerness.
When the couple go to bed that evening their feelings will be enhanced by what has happened earlier that day.
If a Princess then decides to enjoy just a cuddle, her Knight will feel even more wanting of sexual activity than usual during the cuddle.
If she chooses to enjoy sexual activities, her Knight will be extra appreciative.
And if she chooses to enjoy another session of `Ritual only´, the repeat will be even more powerful (for both!).
Bedtime `just Ritual´
The most common time to enjoy a long session of just a Pleasure Kiss will be at bedtime.
If the Princess would like the bedroom specially prepared for the session she can use the Prepare command.
As recommended in the previous section on Ritual as a Blissette, if the main event of a night's activities is a long Pleasure Kiss, then having a morning after Blissette Ritual refreshes the memory (to both mind and body) of the previous night's pleasures for both Devotees.
Due to the morning's Blissette, the previous night's long Pleasure Kiss will be remembered more often and intensely throughout the rest of the day.
Strengthening the Devotional Dynamic
A couple new to Devotional Sex need to establish and strengthen their Devotional dynamic.
A strong Devotional dynamic is when both feel that the Princess's Princess Power is very real, and when the Knight is happy to channel his high erotic energy towards obeying and giving his Princess pleasure.
Because a session of `Ritual only´ is such a pleasurable way for a Princess to make the Devotional dynamic feel real, enjoying many sessions of `Ritual only´ is highly recommended for Devotees who have just started Devotional Dating, and for established couples who are just starting with Devotional Sex.
A Princess with a Devotional Friend can decide to make sessions of `Ritual only´ their main way of being sexual together. In this case the Devotional dynamic would be very strong as the whole sexual part of the their Devotional Friendship would be focused on the Princess's P/pleasure.
