Living Devotional Sex
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The Ritual command
The Ritual command enables a Princess to enjoy a Pleasure Kiss (receive oral sex) whenever she wants and for as long as she wants.
This a very special Devotional Sex command, and is part of what is represented by the Devotional Sex logo.
This a very special Devotional Sex command, and is part of what is represented by the Devotional Sex logo.
As well as using Ritual to enjoy Pleasure Kisses, a Princess can use this command to enjoy a Ritual Cuddle and some other pleasures.
The command:
When a Princess says "Ritual",
if not already in this position, she moves to lie on her back.
If her legs are together her Knight moves down to lie by her side and cuddle her with his head resting on her lower tummy and his nose just above her Pleasure. This is a Ritual Cuddle.
He continues to cuddle her in this intimate way until his Princess does a Ritual action.
If the Princess opens her legs her Knight repositions himself to lie between her legs and he then gives her a Pleasure Kiss.
If his Princess parts her legs as she says "Ritual" her Knight skips the Ritual Cuddle and moves straight to giving her a Pleasure Kiss.
The Ritual does not end until the Princess gives her Knight two firm squeezes on his shoulder (or makes clear that Ritual is over by some other means). Her Knight then moves up and cuddles his Princess in her preferred way (a Devotional Cuddle, just a cuddle, or a cuddle in the Be Small position).
Couples who enjoy Foot Kisses or Bud Kisses can extend the Ritual command with some further actions so that these pleasures can also be enjoyed as a part of this command.
If her legs are together her Knight moves down to lie by her side and cuddle her with his head resting on her lower tummy and his nose just above her Pleasure. This is a Ritual Cuddle.
He continues to cuddle her in this intimate way until his Princess does a Ritual action.
If the Princess opens her legs her Knight repositions himself to lie between her legs and he then gives her a Pleasure Kiss.
If his Princess parts her legs as she says "Ritual" her Knight skips the Ritual Cuddle and moves straight to giving her a Pleasure Kiss.
The Ritual does not end until the Princess gives her Knight two firm squeezes on his shoulder (or makes clear that Ritual is over by some other means). Her Knight then moves up and cuddles his Princess in her preferred way (a Devotional Cuddle, just a cuddle, or a cuddle in the Be Small position).
Couples who enjoy Foot Kisses or Bud Kisses can extend the Ritual command with some further actions so that these pleasures can also be enjoyed as a part of this command.
Ritual is optional, but most will enjoy it often
But it is likely that most couples who practice Devotional Sex will enjoy Ritual often.
A not uncommon initial reaction to the concept of the Princess using an occasional command in the bedroom is to think that saying a command would sound silly or feel bossy, and so commands would not work in practice. In about the commands I explain why I believe that using commands is beneficial, and show how their use can quickly start to feel natural. I highly recommend that all Devotee couples at least try using a few commands to get a feel for how it works in practice.
As with all Devotional Sex commands, a couple can use a different word for the command, or instead use a phrase.
Whatever word or phrase is used, the most important part of Ritual is that whenever a Princess `asks´ for oral sex her Knight obliges, and that he does not stop giving her oral until she `asks´ for it to stop.
Ritual feels very special
The real power of Ritual is when it is used often, and it eventually becomes a normal a part of a couple's Devotional Sex life. After a while it really does feel normal and natural for the Princess to be able to enjoy a Pleasure Kiss whenever she likes, and for every Pleasure Kiss to go on for as long as she likes.
For a Princess, using the Ritual command is one of the reasons that Devotional Sex feels very special. And having her Knight always obey this command proves that he is very devoted to her and that Devotional Sex is very real.
That a Knight knows he will always obey the Ritual command becomes symbolic of his devotion to his Princess. And that he enjoys hearing the word Ritual, and that it is a true pleasure for him to obey, is symbolic of his enjoyment of being a Knight.
How Ritual is used
As with all Devotional Sex activities, it is up to each Princess to decide how often, and in what way, she uses this command.
An exploration of the sections below is sure to reward the reader with some fun and exciting new ideas, as well as helping you to better enjoy the more basic pleasures of the Ritual command.
Feel free to ignore anything below which you don't like.
And I hope you have fun exploring and putting into practice the bits you do like!
The Ritual Cuddle
Only going as far as the Ritual Cuddle
A Pleasure Kiss for as long as she wants
Enjoyed by both
Ending the Ritual
Holding the Knight's hard Desire after Ritual
Ending a session this way is highly recommended when a Pleasure Kiss is a sessions last sexual activity. (More)
Using a pillow for comfort and to indicate a long kiss
Ritual to have an orgasm
Ritual without an orgasm
For many couples it will be very common for the Princess to enjoy a Pleasure Kiss just for these preliminary pleasures, and many Kisses will be enjoyed without an orgasm. (More)
Ritual as a Blissette
The Blissette might consist only of the intimate Ritual Cuddle, or it can be a `good morning´ or a `good night´ Pleasure Kiss. (More)
Longer sessions of only a Pleasure Kiss
Not only are such sessions fun for both, but they strengthen the Devotional dynamic. (More)
Ritual as a meditation
This meditation on sexual pleasure and her Knight's devotion can be very moving and powerful. (More)
Ritual before the Knight is aroused
Saying Ritual during Joy
She goes from receiving one pleasure to another, but her Knight is no-longer receiving pleasure. (More)
Ritual to celebrate the juices
Other commands during Ritual - "Be Still" and "Adore"
"Be Still" keeps contact but with the Knight remaining still. "Adore" has no contact, leaving the Knight to adore from a short distance. (More)
Ritual when she is wearing panties
This is a particularly powerful when the Knight is very aroused, and when used right at the very start of Devotional Dating or with a Devotional Friend. (More)
Using the Ritual command in the living room
Enjoying Ritual outside
Enjoying Ritual outside adds a new dimension to the fun. (More)
The meaning of the Devotional Sex logo
Ritual as a ritual
If a Princess decides that she would like to receive oral sex from her Knight, for example, every Friday evening (and perhaps also not allow other sexual activities on a Friday so that the Ritual feels more special to both), then this would become one of the couples Devotional Sex habits, ie one of their rituals.
More is said about the power of using Ritual as a ritual in Chapter 11, here.
Sharing your experience of Ritual
As show above, there are many ways that Ritual can be used, and so each couple is likely to enjoy Ritual in their own special way.
If you try Ritual, please consider sharing your experience with other readers. Your words may help others to also give it a try. And the way you use Ritual may inspire others to try something different.
You can contribute anything from just a few lines to a long real-life story.
Please don't just say what you do, but also include how doing this makes you both feel. And, if possible, get your partner to add a few words on how they feel. If you write about your experience of starting to use this command, who's idea was it to first do this, and how did the dynamic change over time?
Ritual will change your sex life for the better. Your contribution may help change other people's sex lives.