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The No command
When a Knight
suggests an activity by starting to do it, if his Princess
say "No" he should immediately stop.
He is not allowed to suggest that activity again later on in that session.
He is not allowed to suggest that activity again later on in that session.
This command is useful because much of what happens during Devotional Sex may be suggested by the Knight. As well as verbally making a suggestion, the Knight will sometimes make a suggestion by starting to do an activity. `No´ is one of the commands which a Princess can use to respond to both verbal and physical suggestions.
Saying "No" means that her Knight is not allowed to make that suggestion again for the rest of that session. If it is bed time, then the next morning is a new session. If it is a whole evening of play, and there is a long break half way, then the restarting of activity can be thought of as a new session.
Note that if a Princess says "No" to a suggestion from her Knight, and then later on in the session changes her mind and now wants the suggested activity, she will need to tell her Knight to do it.
This command requires the Princess to be honest with herself about what she would like, and then be open with her Knight.
In some `normal´ sex it is `lady like´ for a woman to say "no" to something that might be a bit `less proper´ than usual. But this "no" is really saying "I am being a lady and pretending that I don't like this. I hope you try again, and if you do I will eventually let you do it".
For example, touching or kissing the Bud is considered by some a bit taboo. If a Knight starts to do this to his Princess and she says "No", because within Devotional Sex "No" means no, her Knight will stop and not try again. If a Princess really does not want any attention paid to her Bud during that session it is appropriate for her to say "No". But if the idea has some attraction, but not yet, she must be open and honest with her Knight and say "Later". And if she would like to see where her Knight's actions might go, she needs to be even more open and honest, and can just murmur "mmmm". Of course she can later tell her Knight to stop, or to do things differently, so starting an exploration within Devotional Sex is always safe.
