Living with children

Last updated: 19 December 2011
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Living Devotional Sex

Practicing Devotional Sex when living with children obviously creates some challenges and limits what can be done.

This section gives advice on how to deal with these everyday challenges, and how to get the most out of your Devotional Sex lifestyle despite the restrictions.

Everyone is different

People have very different ideas about what it is appropriate for children to see and to know.

At one extreme would be the conservative couple who believe that it is inappropriate for children to see any signs of affection between their parents (apart from a 50's style hello and goodbye kiss on the cheek). Such a couple is likely to think that any talk about sex is inappropriate.

At the other extreme will be those who think that it is OK for children to have age appropriate knowledge about sex, and that seeing their parents openly show affection to each other is natural and healthy, and that non-sexual nudity is OK.

Some couples will feel that it is OK for children to see Devotional Sex activities such as a (fully clothed) Knight giving his Princess a foot massage.

Please let me know if I am wrong, but I think that everyone would agree that it is inappropriate for children to see any sexual nudity or sexual activity. (Note that Affirmation is sexualized nudity.)

You are likely to think that couples who are more conservative than you are prudes, and couples who are more liberal than you are going too far. Everyone is different. So please take this into account when reading the rest of this page.

Guiding principles

The main principles are that both the Princess and her Knight must be happy with what happens, and that the children are bought up to be happy and healthy.

Devotional Sex encourages erotic activity to be more than just a few minutes in bed every day or two. Devotees should try to create some regular couple time when they can relax as a Princess and her Knight. An obvious time to do this is once the children have gone to bed.

When practicing Devotional Sex it might be a good idea to not only be able to lock the bedroom door, but to be able to lock the living room door. Tell the children that the door is sometimes locked when you are enjoying `couple time´, and that if they need you to knock.

Treat couple time as a natural thing to do. If you both act as if your children have discovered you doing something bad then they will get a bad impression.

I need you to contribute

I have never lived with children, so I have no personal experience of living Devotional Sex when children also live in the house. But the fact that you have looked at this page makes it likely that you have children living at home.

Please consider contributing on this topic by either contacting me or by posting here on the forum.

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