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Why a Blissette is defined as only one sexual activity
 
A Blissette is defined as only one sexual activity because in the few minutes available there is only time to properly appreciate one activity.

Devotional Sex encourages couples to enjoy each moment of an activity. Rather than thinking of an activity as a stepping stone to the next one or as a means of reaching Climax, the activity is enjoyed for itself.

To fully appreciate an activity you need the time to first enjoy the start of that activity and then to settle into the continuing pleasure of it. As a Blissette lasts for only a few minutes there is only time to enjoy one activity if that activity is to be properly appreciated.

With Devotional Sex there is never an expectation that activities will be `balanced´ within one session. To the extent that a couple do balance their activities, this is done over many sessions. Also, as giving pleasure is enjoyed as much as receiving it, the giver does not feel they have missed out. Thus
a Pleasure Kiss or Desire Kiss alone makes a very enjoyable and satisfactory Blissette.

It will be common for Blissettes in bed to start with a cuddle, then maybe a minute or so of a Devotional Cuddle, and then the sexual activity. A Blissette might also end with a short Devotional Cuddle. As an exception to the general rule, a Desire Play Blissette could end with a very short Desire Kiss to add a final peak of pleasure and teasing.
 
Of course, the definition of a Blissette does not prevent a Devotee couple from enjoying two or more sexual activities in a short session whenever they wish.

 
 
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