8: Getting Started Games
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About the Getting Started Games
These games are played either just for fun, or to learn about and experience Devotional Sex.
Like all games, each game has its rules. Once you learn what a game is trying to achieve, you are able to bend the rules to make the game even more fun, or to further explore the feelings produced by playing the game.
Like all games, each game has its rules. Once you learn what a game is trying to achieve, you are able to bend the rules to make the game even more fun, or to further explore the feelings produced by playing the game.
One reason is that this is the way to learn about, explore and experience Devotional Sex.
But the main reason, which you should never forget when you are playing, is to have fun!
The games are all putting you in a new and different situation. They also apply some strange rules. If they did not do this they would not be games!
When you start to play a new board game you are told the rules of when and how to move your pieces on the board. Of course there is nothing stopping you at any time from picking up your and the other player's pieces and moving them any which way. But if you do this, any fun from the game will be lost, and you have effectively stopped playing the game.
The Devotional Sex Getting Started Games are just the same. Of course you can do whatever you like whenever you want, but to enjoy the fun of the game (and to experience some Devotional Sex), you need to keep playing according to the guidelines for that game.
For many of the games I suggest some specific activities to do as the game progresses. I also say why this activity works at this part of the game, and what the activity is trying to achieve.
If the person leading the game understands the reason why I have suggested an activity at a particular time, they will be able to easily decide whether or not another activity would work just as well.
My suggestions are only one way of playing the game. Once you have understood the feelings and dynamic of the game, you can easily play the same game with a very different mix of activities.
The game will work well if you follow all of my suggestions. But it works even better once you have understood what the game is about, forget my suggestions and, whilst still keeping to the feelings and dynamic of the game, do your own thing.
If you are playing the game mainly for fun, there is nothing wrong with drifting away from the dynamic of the game and moving on to other enjoyable activities.
If starting to play the game has led on to an evenings fun and pleasure, then the game has been a success even if you stop playing the game half way through.
Before experiencing Devotional Sex (even if your experience is just playing one of the games) it is important that you are aware of the problems which may occur.
Just in case, you should also have a quick look at Chapter 10: Problems and difficulties. If you do encounter a problem you can then read more of this chapter to see how you can fix it.
