Starting Devotional Sex when dating
A female wants to try Devotional Sex with a date
This page and all that follow are for a female who wants to use Devotional Sex with her date.
If this is not your situation, please click here if you are male or here if you are female.
If this is not your situation, please click here if you are male or here if you are female.
Your first step towards trying Devotional Sex is to learn about Devotional Sex from reading the rest of this site.
The Outline of Devotional Sex in Chapter One is a good place to start as it not only gives an overview of Devotional Sex, but also an overview of this site. This page also provides links to most of the key sections of the site.
One reason to study this site is so that you can decide whether or not you really do want to give it a go. The more you know about Devotional Sex the better you will be able to decide whether or not it might be right for you.
A very common mistake is to think that once your date has shown some interest in Devotional Sex he will prove this by reading this site.
By all means let him know about this site, and let him know that you would be happy if he does take a look.
But it is best to assume that he will never look at it, or if he does, he will only have a quick browse.
There are two reasons why your date not looking at this site is not a problem.
Firstly, he may be happy and willing to enjoy Devotional Sex with you, yet not be so interested in it as a technique that he wants to study. As long as he enjoys doing Devotional Sex with you it does not really matter if he does not read about it.
The other reason why it is ok for your date not to look at this site is that he can learn all he needs to know from you.
His learning about Devotional Sex from you is easier for him. What is more, your telling him about Devotional Sex means that he finds out what you like and how you want to do it.
So another reason to study the site is that once your date is willing to enjoy Devotional Sex with you, it will probably still be up to you to teach him all about Devotional Sex.
As you read this site you need to be thinking "What would my date want to know?". That way you will be better prepared to answer his questions.
The next step is to read this section, and to decide whether or not you really want to give it a go.
Using Devotional Sex in your dating may require you to step outside of your comfort zone. And at times you will need to be assertive to keep control over what happens.
There is also a risk that some potential dates will reject you because of Devotional Sex (but you may also find a date who becomes more interested in you because of Devotional Sex).
Conventional dating often has no middle ground. Either nothing sexual happens on a date, or everything happens. Devotional Dating opens up a very fun and liberating middle ground where erotic energy is shared and enjoyed but you don't go all the way.
For me the joys of using Devotional Sex during first intimacy are so great that having a date or two reject me because of my talk of Devotional Sex is a small price to pay for the wonderful experiences when a date is willing to taste Devotional Sex during our first intimacy.
Once you have tasted the joys of Devotional Dating in real-life you might, like me, find it very easy to say that Devotional Sex will be a part of all your future dating.
But to first taste these joys on a date you will need to be brave and a make a personal commitment that, if the moment feels right, you will try to get your date to do things differently. You will try to get him to become your Knight.
Read on to learn more about how you can make Devotional Sex a part of your dating ...
