This area is different from the other areas of Devotional Friendship not because what is done is different, but because the main reason why things are done is different. Normally Devotional Friends enjoy the activities just for fun and pleasure. In this case the main reason is to explore Devotional Sex itself.

A woman who meets an experienced Knight might like to explore how it feels to be a Princess. And a man who meets an experienced Princess might like to explore how it feels to be a Knight.

If neither of you has any experience your exploration will be new for both of you.

As long as you are both happy to play with erotic energy, it is possible to get a good feeling for the Devotional Sex dynamic without engaging in explicit sexual activity.

What you do will depend on what aspects of Devotional Sex you want to explore. You might want to try some of the games mentioned elsewhere in this chapter, or you might want to explore some of the areas suggested under Devotional Friends.

Of course the couple will need to talk beforehand (or they could start with the Knight giving the Princess a foot massage and talk then) so that they both know what the play is meant to achieve, and understand each others expectations and limitations.

The dynamic within a Devotional Friendship is a bit different from that within a romantic Devotional relationship. If it is the Knight who is keen to do more, then a Devotional Friendship becomes a good example of Princess Power because the Princess will feel comfortable going as far as she wants, but no further. Going only as far as she wishes will feel natural, and she will not need to be at all dominant to resist doing the next step.

But a Devotional Friendship gives the wrong impression about how much Princess control usually takes place. If the Knight is the one keen to do more within a Devotional Friendship, then it is the Princess who must decide what happens, and what does not. So a Princess in a Devotional Friendship will often control the activities much more than would be needed within a romantic Devotional relationship.

If one person is experienced with Devotional Sex, the other person needs to remember that all the strange and difficult aspects of Devotional Sex will be `normal´ behavior for their partner.

If the Knight is experienced it will probably be much harder for the new Princess to request something different from `normal´ than it will be for the Knight to obey. An experienced Knight is used to being very aroused without things always leading to sexual activity, and he is used to giving pleasure without expecting it to be returned. So playing with an experienced Knight is probably the easiest and quickest way for a woman to get a taste of what is like to be a Princess.

An experienced Princess is used to being obeyed, and enjoys being with a very aroused man. She will enjoy getting him aroused, and playing with his energy. She will also be able to help the new Knight deal with his erotic energy when it does not lead to the usual activities and ending, and she will feel comfortable about what, if any, sexual activity takes place. A Devotional Friendship might not be the best way for a new Knight to discover the sexual pleasures of being a Knight, but it is a good way for him to explore how it feels to have lots of erotic energy which is only enjoyed within the activities chosen by the Princess.

All the writing on this site makes Devotional Sex sound very organized and well defined. It is only when you try it for real that you experience how it all naturally comes together. Devotional Sex is not the words on this site. It is the reality of two people enjoying their new `normal´ way of interacting once the have `forgotten´ what they have read. The reality is much more fun than the reading.

If you want to taste the reality of Devotional Sex, and you do not have a romantic partner, then a Devotional Friend might be your entry to some fun and exciting exploration.

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