Using Princess Power

The main use of Princess Power is for the Princess to direct the action to enhance the pleasure and fun for both her and her Knight. Princess Power can also be used during cuddles when there is no sexual activity to control the Knight's erotic energy.

When a Princess does not want things to go any further she can use her power to get her Knight more aroused and as long as the activity makes him feel more under her power it then becomes easier for him to obey her.

Princess Power can also be used to enjoy some background play, sensual activities, intimacy, and erotic fun.

Finally, when the lessons of dog training are applied, Princess Power can be used to achieve the almost impossible.

Directing the action for pleasure and fun

An obvious benefit of Devotional Sex for a women is that she can use her Princess Power to direct the activities for her own pleasure and fun. She can not only say what she wants to happen, but direct how things are done, and how long every activity will go on for.

But a Princess is also devoted to her Knight, and a less obvious benefit of Princess Power is that she will direct some of the activities to create pleasure and fun for her Knight.

The combination of using her Princess Power for her own selfish pleasure and also using it to ensure her Knight enjoys his role results in a significantly enhanced sensual and sexual life. (More)

Controlling a Knight's energy during just cuddles

One difference between Devotional Sex and vanilla sex is that a Knight will often get aroused during a morning or bedtime cuddle even when he knows that things will not go any further.

Princess Power can be used to direct a Knight to either raise or lower his erotic energy during these cuddles. Sometimes a Princess may want her Knight to be calm so that she can enjoy a more relaxed cuddle. And sometimes she may want her Knight to get more aroused. (More)

A new way to NOT go any further

In vanilla sex a women who does not want sexual activity to progress further will usually try to calm down her partner. With Devotional Sex a Princess can gain firmer control over the situation by getting her Knight more aroused.

If what makes her Knight more aroused establishes or strengthens his feeling that his Princess is in charge, then his arousal makes it feel easier and more natural for him to obey her.

Not only is this more effective in limiting what happens, it strengthens the Devotional Dynamic and it's lots more fun! (More)

Background play

Especially when a Knight has higher than usual erotic energy, he will be desiring his Princess even when the couple are doing ordinary things. Princess Power can be used to make the Knight do something in the background (such as wear something special or be Affirmed).

Such background activity can be very effective because for the Princess it can be set and then for much of the time forget, while her Knight will be aware of the background activity most of the time. (More)

Sensual activities

A Princess can use her Princess Power to enjoy receiving lots of sensual pleasures.

Even when both are keen to go to bed for some sexual activity the Princess can use her power to have her Knight give her a foot massage, body massage, or other sensual pleasure before they move on to the sex.

And when a Knight is very keen for some sexual activity, but the Princess is not, she can direct his energy into giving her a sensual pleasure, which can be win-win because she gets to enjoy some sensual pleasure while her Knight gets at least some satisfaction from being able to interact with his Princess. (More)

Intimacy

One of the main benefits of Devotional Sex is that it increases and maintains intimacy.

Princess Power can be used by a Princess to have her Knight go to bed with her for just a cuddle. And Princess Power enables a couple to enjoy lots of erotic resting both in between sexual activity and after sexual activity. (More)

Erotic fun

Erotic fun is doing activities which generate arousal but don't lead to more full-on sexual activity.

Erotic fun is made possible by Princess Power because it needs the Princess to command the start of the activity, and it is her Princess Power which prevents things from going further, and then ends the activity.

Erotic fun is a great way of establishing a Devotional Dynamic that both will continue to feel after the erotic fun ends. (More)

Lessons from dog training: achieving the almost impossible

If a Princess applies the lessons from dog training to her Knight it becomes possible to create some very different, and fun, scenarios.

Just like training a real dog, success only comes from moving very slowly and consistently one small step at a time.

Of course it is easy to create something which is the Knight's fantasy. The dog training method is powerful because it can lead to the Princess's fantasy.

Because the Princess is devoted to her Knight, a Princess may think up a scenario which incorporates some of her Knight's fantasies, and in this case the bits that he really likes will help the Knight learn to accept the bits which are initially just fun for the Princess. (More)

Chapter 5: Princess Power