There
are three ways to start Devotional Sex. Which is chosen depends on how
the man feels about his first experiences of not ejaculating after sex.
The
best way to start Devotional Sex not only depends on the feelings of
the man, but on what his partner feels will work best for her. In some
cases the couple may need to compromise.
The main differences between these methods is at what stage the Princess is given power to control when her Knight ejaculates.
Learn Devotional Tao first A man who wants to minimize any feelings of sexual frustration can learn Devotional Tao before starting Devotional Sex.
Starting
with just Devotional Tao means that the man keeps control over when he
ejaculates. It also means that when sexual activity takes place it
needs to be long enough for him to feel satisfied.
If his partner is not at this stage wanting to become his Princess, he may lean Devotional Tao while also acting as a Supplicant Knight.
If
his partner is interested in being a Princess, both may agree that some
mild Princess Power will apply during the early stages.
Once the
man has learned not to feel frustrated when sex finishes without him
ejaculating, the couple can move to full Devotional Sex where the
Princess takes control over when her Knight may ejaculate, and Princess Power becomes a part of their dynamic. (More)
Start with BDSM-style ejaculation denial Men
who enjoy the intense feelings of BDSM-style ejaculation denial can
start with high-energy Devotional Sex and then learn Devotional Tao.
The
intense feelings of BDSM-style ejaculation denial are enjoyed by some
men, and this provides a high-energy entry to Devotional Sex.
If
his partner is prepared to handle a Knight with very high energy, the
couple can start their journey by the new Princess taking control over
her new Knight's ejaculations. Strong Princess power may be needed at first to control the Knight's high energy.
Having
established Princess Power, the Knight can then start to learn
Devotional Tao, and the couple will then slowly move to the more
relaxed dynamic of full Devotional Sex. (More)
Learn Devotional Sex and Devotional Tao together Couples can also take a middle path and learn both Devotional Sex and Devotional Tao at the same time.
When
both are learned together, the new Princess takes control over when her
new Knight may ejaculate, but she takes into account how her Knight is
feeling so that his sexual frustration does not get too bad.
She
ensures that her new Knight has enough erotic energy to always desire
her, and this powers the dynamic and keeps Princess Power feeling real.
The
learning of Devotional Tao can be directed by the new Princess as part
of her being able to decide what sexual activities happen and when. (More)