His Desire has a `mind of its own´
His Desire has a `mind of its own´ | Learning to Crest | Chapter 3: Devotional Tao
Never Climax when out of control
When a Knight is close to loosing control his Princess should always help him to regain control.
If his almost loosing control excites her enough to want him to Climax, then this can happen, but only after he has at least briefly regained control.
If his almost loosing control excites her enough to want him to Climax, then this can happen, but only after he has at least briefly regained control.
While learning to Crest, and in your life once you have learned to do this, you will of course still enjoy many Climaxes.
Being able to Crest requires you to have good control over yourself when you are at the top of the erotic energy mountain. This means that you should try to ensure that you never trip at the top of the mountain (ie, never have an uncontrolled ejaculation).
Never tripping means that if you feel close to tripping then you need to pull back slightly and regain control.
When you do want to have a Climax this should always be with you under control. So if you intend to Climax, but are about to do so in an out of control way, try to avoid the out of control Climax, regain control, and then deliberately Climax.
You will need the support of your partner in learning to have good control over yourself. She needs to know why it is important that you have good control, and if she is the person providing the stimulation, she needs to always stop or slow down whenever you let her know that you need to regain control.
A part of Devotional Sex that a Knight only Climaxes when allowed by his Princess. So a Knight should never Climax unless he is allowed, and he will Climax when told to. In this sense his Climaxes are very much under his Princess's control.
But his Princess's control over when he can and cannot Climax does not mean that when his Princess wants him to Climax he can do this in an uncontrolled way.
The game of your partner trying to make you Climax when you are trying not to is one that she is likely to win. This game is fun, but it actually trains you to have less control over your body. If you want to learn to Crest, and then to master this process, this games is something that you will have to miss out on.
