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Talking dirty
Talking
dirty is using dirty words to talk about sex. When there is an
underlying belief that sex is dirty, expressing this in taboo words can
feel liberating and arousing. The underlying belief that sex is dirty
is so common in some cultures, including the USA, that much advice on
good sex includes good communication and expressing your feelings under
the topic of talking dirty.
Wikipedia defines dirty talk as "the practice of using graphic word imagery to heighten sexual pleasure before and during the sex act. It is commonly a part of foreplay." (Click here for the full, albeit rather short, Wikipedia article.)
At http://datingshoes.com/how-to-talk-dirty-to-my-boyfriend/ a women asks for advice about talking dirty: "Is this normal?", and "what to say". The answer is only about communicating "what feels good for you", "guide him to do it just the way you like", and "compliment his penis".
Such communication is, as said in the answer, very beneficial to a good sex life. But what has it got to do with talking dirty? The author must think that all sex is dirty, so just saying "mmm, that feels good" is, to him, talking dirty!
The above site has a click-through advertisement to The Ultimate Guide To Talking Dirty: Learn How to Talk Dirty at http://www.dirtytalkingguide.com/ (Note that I have no connection to this site, and I get no financial gain if you click this link).
This site starts of saying "Dirty Talk is quite possibly the healthiest thing you can do for any relationship. Studies have shown that Talking Dirty helps to improve love making, increases intimacy, drives desire and can make you an all around more confident person."
As well as including just normal good communication, this site says "Whatever the reason may be it seem that from the time we're children we are taught that dirty words are bad. Saying naughty and dirty things is not something good girls and boys do...or do" so at least here talking dirty does include dirty words! And a reason to talk dirty is "Men love dirty talk because it adds spice and intimacy into their romance."
Advice on how to talk dirty is also given at http://sexuality.about.com/od/talkingwithpartners/ht/dirtytalk.htm. This advice makes clear that dirty talk includes "low rhythmic grunts, high pitched squeals" and other sounds. It also advices "avoid clinical terms (like penis)" and even includes porn as a suggested way of increasing your vocabulary in this area.
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