Wearing a Devotee Ring is a symbol to both yourself and your partner of your commitment to be their Princess or Knight, and a reminder of the joys of practicing Devotional Sex with them.

You can also wear a Devotee Ring if you are Devotional Dating, you have a Devotional Friend, or if you are single and have made a personal commitment to follow the principles of Devotional Sex the next time you are intimate with someone.

Of course this public symbol is optional - not everyone wants to let others who recognize what the ring means know that they are a Devotee. And a couple can choose that just the Princess, or just the Knight, wears a Devotee Ring.
 
 
To see some photos of two different male Devotee rings click here.
 
 
There is also an intimate private symbol of a man being a Devotional Knight, and this is presented in Chapter 11 here.
 
 
The best time to start wearing a Devotee Ring is when making a commitment to practice Devotional Sex.

When an established couple first explore Devotional Sex, each commitment to practice Devotional Sex will be for just one night, one season, or for maybe a week.

A Devotee Ring can be worn during this exploration. Putting the ring on can symbolize the start of the exploration and the wearers commitment to be a Princess or a Knight for the period of the exploration.

Of course the ring should be taken off when the exploration ends.
 
 
The most special time for an established couple to start wearing a Devotee Ring is when they both make the commitment to live Devotional Sex for a significant period of time. Initially this might be to live Devotional Sex for a month. More experienced couples may want to commit for a whole year.

Couples may find it meaningful to have a ceremony when they make such a significant commitment to each other, and putting the rings on can form a key part of this ceremony.

Making such a long-term commitment is further discussed in the section in Chapter 9 on committing within a relationship.
 
 
When Devotional Sex is practiced as part of dating, there are several points of commitment. Starting to wear a Devotee Ring can be used to represent any of these commitments.

A single person can commit to themselves to practice Devotional Sex in the future, and they can choose to start wearing a Devotee Ring when they make this commitment.

More is said about making the above commitments in the section in Chapter 9 on making the commitment.
 
 
When with a partner, wearing a Devotee ring represents your commitment to practice Devotional Sex with them. It thus represents all the joys as well as the responsibilities.

• For a Knight this includes his commitment to obey his Princess and to only ejaculate when she allows. (More)
   
• For a Princess it represents her Princess Power and her responsibility to ensure her Knight enjoys his role. (More)

When single, wearing a Devotee Ring represents your commitment to yourself to practice Devotional Sex next time you are intimate with someone.

• For a Knight this involves introducing your date or friend to Devotional Sex, and giving her Princess Power over you. (More)
   
• A single Princess may not immediately tell her next partner about Devotional Sex, but she will use her power to say "no" and her freedom to suggest activities to enjoy a Devotional experience. (More)

 
 
If you meet someone wearing a Devotee Ring:

• it might be just a coincidence that they are wearing the right type of ring on the correct finger. It is possible that the ring wearer has never heard of Devotional Sex!   
  
  
• even if they are a Devotee they may not want to talk about it or even just make small talk with you.

So please respect the other person's right to privacy.

Perhaps the best solution if you meet someone wearing what might be a Devotee Ring, and you wish to talk with them, is to first mention that you are wearing a similar ring. And if you are not wearing a similar ring you could say something that mentioned the words `Princess´ or `Knight´, and then see where the conversation goes.
 
 
It may be difficult to find a ring which fits the little finger. Especially for women, most rings in the shops may be too big. Many jewelers will resize a ring. But, especially when you are just starting Devotional Sex, you may prefer to avoid this extra expense.

If you can't find a suitable ring which is small enough to fit your little finger, you can instead wear a bigger ring on the finger which is next to your thumb.
 
 
You can discuss all aspects of the Devotee Ring at the forum here.