Outline of Devotional Sex - Part 2
Mild to wild - you decide what is right for you
There are so many possibilities and options that it is unlikely that any two couples will enjoy Devotional Sex in exactly the same way.
This site is full of suggestions. Please ignore what you don't like, enjoy doing what you do like, and be brave enough to try any of the more challenging activities which tempt you.
One important factor that will determine which activities are suitable for you is the extent to which the Knight enjoys erotic submission.
Practicing Devotional Sex does not require the male to be sexually submissive - he just needs to be willing to give up male dominance and to focus his higher-than-usual erotic energy on his Princess.
If a Knight does enjoy feeling erotically submissive to his Princess there are many ways that this can be enjoyed and celebrated within Devotional Sex. Many of the activities suggested on this site will work better if the Knight enjoys submission, and some activities will only work with a submissive Knight.
Devotional Sex does not include humiliation, and any activity which makes a Knight feel humiliated is going too far. Any activity which has him feeling more aroused and more devoted to his Princess is just right.
Special activities that become normal within Devotional Sex
Some of the highlights of this chapter are:
- Blissettes: These are short sessions of only one sexual activity, and make up much of the extra sex enjoyed within Devotional Sex.
- The Ritual command: This command enables a Princess to enjoy receiving oral sex whenever, and for as long as, she wishes.
- The Devotional Cuddle:
This is erotic resting time, with the couple cuddling and the Princess
just holding or gently playing with her Knight's erection. These
erotic cuddles are a special part of Devotional Sex.
- Affirmation: This is when a couple spend time together with the Princess dressed and her Knight naked (a domestic version of CFNM - clothed female naked male). Affirmation can be used to celebrate and affirm the Devotional power dynamic.
Optional activities and enhancements
Chapter 12: Other People ranges from the topic of just talking about Devotional Sex with other people to enjoying, as a couple, mild to more full-on erotic activity with others.
Chapter 13: Enhancements presents a wide range of kinkier activities which can be enjoyed within Devotional Sex. Though these enhancements will not be to everybody's taste, more adventurous couples may find some of them to be lots of fun and very powerful.
Devotional Sex does not impose rules
Devotional Sex is only possible if both people want to practice it. A Princess accepts the responsibilities of her role because she wants to be a Princess, and her Knight accepts the requirements of his role because he wants to be her Knight. Devotional Sex is not imposed because both want to live their role and either can decide to stop at any time.
`Normal´ sex has its own rules and expectations. Though these rules are not discussed or written down, they still very much control and limit what is done. Also, each established relationship will have developed its own sexual habits and routines.
Devotional Sex replaces your old unwritten rules with a different way of doing things, and enables you to break away from your old habits and routines to explore new ways of enjoying intimacy, sensuality, and erotic pleasures.
Is Devotional Sex spiritual?
But Devotional Sex can be enhanced by adding a spiritual component, and this optional enhancement is presented in Chapter 7: Tantric Devotion.
BDSM and Devotional Sex
Consensual female erotic power is one of the many practices of BDSM. A BDSM Mistress is a dominant woman who finds it exciting and erotic to exert control over her submissive partner.
Ejaculation denial is sometimes used by a Mistress to keep her partner highly aroused and submissive. The Mistress's dominance is needed to balance her submissive's high erotic energy, and as his energy does not go away, some control over him is always needed.
Devotional Sex also has the man not ejaculating most times he has sex. But with Devotional Sex the Knight's erotic energy is calmed by him using some of the-orgasmic man techniques. A calmer Knight means that much less active control is needed by a Princess to balance her Knight's erotic energy.
So one big difference between Devotional Sex and a BDSM Mistress is that the role of a Devotional Princess can be enjoyed by a confident, but non-dominant woman.
Another big difference is that BDSM often concentrates on activities such as humiliation, punishment, giving and receiving pain, and bondage, whilst the starting point for Devotional Sex is sexual activities and enhancing connection and intimacy.
An interest in BDSM may be an entry to Devotional Sex:
- A happy FemDom couple might be
inspired to also practice the multi-orgasmic man technique, in which
case they will then be enjoying Devotional Sex,
- Those wanting to enjoy some BDSM, but with a reluctant partner, may find that their partner is happy to practice Devotional Sex, and
- Those interested in mild FemDom might find that Devotional Sex is just right.
Stories and feedback
This chapter also includes some illustrative fictional stories about Devotional Sex and reader feedback about this site.