Last updated: 12 April 2010
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Common Concerns
Because
Devotional Sex is so different from `normal´ sex, it is not
unusual for new readers to have some concerns and questions.
My answers to 38 common concerns may help you decide whether or not you want to continue to explore Devotional Sex.
My answers to 38 common concerns may help you decide whether or not you want to continue to explore Devotional Sex.
Clicking `More´ after any of the concerns listed below takes you to my reply.
The first group are general concerns which might be raised by anyone. The second group are female concerns. And the final group are male concerns.
General Concerns:
- Devotional Sex imposes rules (More)
- Sex is natural - Devotional Sex is artificial (More)
- Devotional Sex seems too structured (More)
- This site is too instructive - sex should just be fun (More)
- When I have sex I want to do everything, not just some foreplay (More)
- I want both giving and taking in each sexual encounter, not just one or the other (More)
- Techniques like Devotional Sex are only needed when there is a lack of passion (More)
- I am not keen on Tantric sex (More)
- I like fast and hard sex (More)
- Devotional Sex has far too much ritual (More)
- I am not keen on the spiritual aspects (More)
- I see nothing wrong with my current sex life (More)
- The ideas are good, but I dislike the terms Princess and Knight and the other new words (More)
- There are lots of suggestions on the site that I do not like (More)
- I like the idea, but I don't know how to convince my partner (More)
- Will it still work if we have some sexual problems? (More)
- I enjoy my partner taking the initiative (More)
- Equality is important to me, and this is not equal (More)
- How can it work if I want sex more than him? (More)
- I think the male should be dominant in sexual relations (More)
- I don't want to take all the responsibility for our sex life (More)
- I am not a dominant woman (More)
- I enjoy making my partner Climax (More)
- If my partner does not Climax then I will feel I have not given him pleasure (More)
- If my partner does not Climax then I will feel that he is left unsatisfied (More)
- I don't like the idea of my partner always demanding sex (More)
- I don't want to give up the pleasure of Climaxing (More)
- Not Climaxing will leave me feeling frustrated just after sex ends (More)
- Not Climaxing at the end of sex will leave me feeling too horny (More)
- Wanting more sex than I get will leave me feeling frustrated (More)
- Why should she control when I Climax? (More)
- Why should I have to obey her all the time? (More)
- My partner may make me do things I don't like (More)
- I am not a submissive man (More)
- My partner might abuse her power (More)
- My partner already wants too much sex (More)
- This will just give my partner an opportunity to have less sex (More)
- I think the male should be dominant in sexual relations (More)
Discussion, questions, and other concerns
You can discuss or ask questions about any of the above concerns in the forum here.
This is also the place to raise any other concerns you may have about Devotional Sex.