Last updated: 26 July 2008
Background
Michael says:
Tracey and I had known each other for many years. We would catch up every
month or so for a meal, a chat, and sometimes to watch a DVD or listen to some music.
There was enough mutual attraction to sometimes also enjoy a bit of a
cuddle, and very rarely some mild petting. But we both knew that we
would never start a relationship.
I had told Tracey about
Devotional Sex, and she knew that sexually and sensually I would
do anything she said, and that I would never go any further than she
wanted. So from this talk, and from our past experiences, I think she now felt
comfortable that we could enjoy a few intimacies together without things
going further.
I suspect that she is used to the male being dominant in sex
because during the times when we enjoyed the little that we did get up
to together she never confidently used her Princess Power to either have me
do something or to make me stop doing something.
Even though she has never chosen to act as a Princess, I
think of her as a Devotional Friend.
While Devotional Friends can be very sexual together, the most
liberating opportunity with Devotional Friends is that friends can
enjoy just some mild intimacy and fun without going very far. So I
thought of our activities as a very successful use of a Devotional
Friendship.
Tracey says:
When
with Michael I am `vaguely´ aware that we have Devotional Sex. I
know he see me as a Princess, although I’m not sure I want to
ever go as far as giving him any commands. I might surprise him one day
though!
The Foot Massage
On
the evening of this story she came over for a short visit. After
talking for a while, and looking at some photos she had taken on a
recent trip, I asked if she would like a foot massage.
I was pleased when she answered "yes".
I got out the foot massage cream and a small towel, and sat down at her feet.
This
was just a quick visit before I had to rush home and pack my bag for an
early departure the next morning. So during this visit I always felts I
was in a bit of a hurry.
I wasn't expecting anything, so his offer to give me a foot massage was a nice surprise.
I
enjoyed taking her foot in my hand - the first touch is always special.
I put some foot cream onto my hand and spread this over her
the whole foot. I then started the massage proper.
I knew that she had had a stressful day,
and had done lots of walking. When I give a foot massage it is always
nice to see a good reaction. Tracey lay her head back, shut her eyes,
and smiled.
Practicing Devotional Sex has made me really enjoy
giving pleasure to a women. Of course giving sexual pleasure is the
most fun, but I now also very much appreciate an opportunity to give
just a sensual pleasure. Practicing Devotional Sex has
also made me very comfortable to enjoy the pleasures of what is
happening, rather than becoming distracted by wanting a next step. So
even though more would be fun, I relaxed and very much enjoyed giving the foot
massage.
Tracey felt my enjoyment, and said "You really enjoy doing this, don't you."
I told her that I very much did enjoy it, and was happy to give her a foot massage whenever she wished.
One other thing that I really enjoy when giving a foot massage is that when doing so I am in Knight mode. This means that I am committed to obeying any commands, and so I really feel my friends potential Princess Power. For example, if she had said "Reveal" (or words to that effect) I would have had to fully undress, and give her the foot massage while
being naked. Even though I was not expecting any such command from
Tracey, there is always a bit of a thrill from knowing that if she did
decide to have some fun with her Princess Power over me then I would obey.
I
love a foot massage. My feet are generally sensitive - not in a sexual
way, more like tired and aching. So a foot massage always feels good.
And seeing how much Michael enjoys giving me the massage is nice.
The Foot Kiss
About
a year previously I had once given Tracey a Foot Kiss. The last time we
had met I had mentioned this to her, and she had said that it had been
nice.
Nothing
ventured, nothing gained. So after massaging her feet for a while I
gave one foot a token kiss, and said "I would love to give you
another Foot Kiss if I can".
Of course it would have been very easy for her to say "No".
But to my surprise and pleasure she said nothing and just gave a little smile.
From the few times I had given Foot Kiss's before, I knew that doing this made me enter another realm. So I added "If you
don't mind me getting turned and squirmy, I would very much enjoy it."
She gave just a slight nod of her head.
I definitely was not expecting a Foot Kiss, and that things had gone this way was completely unexpected.
Starting
to give the Foot Kiss felt rather strange. It takes me a minute or two
to get used to the idea, and to fully get into it.
As I started
to get into it, I moved from sitting in front of her to lying at her
feet. I kissed, licked, and nibbled her feet. Much of the time I
had my eyes shut.
I think the most intimate parts of the Foot
Kiss was when I put each toe into my mouth one at a time, and gently
sucked it. Doing this with the big toes feels particularly strange - it
has suggestions of giving oral sex to her foot.
Receiving a Foot Kiss feels nice, relaxing, although a bit strange.
At first I tended to think of hygiene and got concerned that this might be a problem for Michael.
Then I relaxed and just enjoyed the ticklish sensations.
By now you might be thinking that I have a strong foot fetish.
In fact this is not the case at all.
When I have the opportunity to enjoy all of a women's body I almost always ignore her feet.
What
was happening to me now was that my strong attraction and desire for
the female body was focused on Tracey's feet because that was all that
I was allowed to touch and kiss. Giving the Foot Kiss was making me
very aroused because it was pushing two powerful buttons, neither of
which had anything to do with me having a foot fetish.
The first button is
that I very much enjoy using my mouth to give a female pleasure.
Practicing Devotional Sex has made me really appreciate and enjoy
giving a women oral sex. What I really wanted to do was give Tracey a
long Pleasure Kiss. As I was not able to do this, my desire to give
oral pleasure was diverted to giving her feet pleasure.
The
second button was that I
very much enjoy the feeling of submission. Giving a Foot Kiss certain
is a very submissive act, and a very powerful and effective way to
surrender to the act of giving a women pleasure.
The initial strangeness of
giving the Foot Kiss quickly disappeared as these two powerful buttons were pressed into activity.
Though there is a slight sexual element in
giving a foot massage, I was not aroused when doing this earlier in the
evening. But it was not long after starting the Foot Kiss that I felt my Desire
start to grow. This made things feel even better and more intense, and
soon I was very aroused, very hard, and fully into just giving her the
Foot Kiss.
My high arousal combined with the strong
submissive feelings had me feeing very spaced out. I was right to warn
Tracey before the Foot Kiss that this would make me squirmy!
In `normal´ life, becoming aroused with
someone tends to mean that things will develop and lead to full sexual
activity. One of the things I enjoy most about Devotional Friendship is
the ability to enjoy the wonderful feelings of being aroused with
someone without any expectation that this must lead to full sexual
activity.
It felt very special that Tracey was allowing me to
become aroused with her even though we both knew that this would not
lead to other things.
Of
course for Tracey receiving the Foot Kiss was much more sedate. She
just enjoyed the sensations of having her feet kissed, and had the fun
of having a very aroused and squirmy man at her feet.
At first I was surprised that Michael had such a strong reaction. But it was fun, and I felt (a bit) powerful.
Because I was in a hurry and consumed with work that I had to do, I never managed to relax enough to fully enjoy the experience.
The Foot Kiss left me … how can I put it… curious and surprised.
Unfortunately
Tracey was not able to stay very long, and the Foot Kiss had to end
even though both of us would have liked it to go on for longer.
We
ended our time together with me kneeling at her feet and giving her a
hug as she sat in the couch. I was still feeling very turned on, and it
took me a minute or two for the very spaced out feeling to leave me.
Final comments
For
me giving Tracey a Foot Kiss was an incredible experience that I very
much would like to enjoy again. The strong feelings of arousal and submission
created a wonderful spaced out feeling that is hard to compare to anything else, including other Devotional Sex activities.
Of course I would like to go further with Tracey.
I would feel even
more under her power if I had to be naked when I gave her the foot
massage and Foot Kiss. Though I have enjoyed giving a few Foot Kisses,
I have always been dressed when doing this. The idea of my having to be
naked while my female friend stays fully dressed pushes my submissive
buttons, and I think the combination would be rather powerful.
And
of course I would love to be able to give her a long Pleasure Kiss one
day! As going further usually means that the women is expected to
sexual satisfy the man, the idea of a Devotional Friendship where the
Knight goes to bed and orally pleasures his Princess without the
Princess ever giving him oral in return, and without ever going as far
as intercourse, is one of the special mutual pleasures available within a Devotional Friendship.
As
a Devotional Friendship enables friends to enjoy the activities chosen
by the Princess, and no more, it is fully up to Tracey what will happen
in the future.
Next time I see Tracey
I will certainly offer her a foot massage. But she might say no.
And
next time I give her a foot massage, she might not want to go any
further. That is OK because even just giving a foot massage is a nice
way to spend time together.
In all our encounters Tracey might not think of herself as a Princess.
But
my thinking of our relationship as being Devotional Friendship, and my
thinking of her as a Princess, means that it is very easy for nothing
to happen, and for when things do happen for them to only go as far as
Tracey wishes.
And the result of this is that I got to enjoy giving Tracey a Foot
Kiss. And the effect of this was so powerful that I am hoping that I can
do it again with Tracey.
If this happens more often, maybe I will start to get a foot fetish!
