Last updated: 2 January 2009
Discussion - why this worked so well
It was a wonderful night with Ada
because the use of Devotional Sex worked so well for us as a couple.
It
was as if she had studied this site and then implemented the perfect
plan. But she had not heard of Devotional Sex before, and she only did
what she wanted at the time.
Ada was an incredibly good Princess. She was a natural.
A
single man who wants to be a Knight but does not have a Princess can
either search for a new partner in the kinky world, or date normally
and see what happens when they suggest Devotional Sex to their date.
I have found that normal dating works best, and that many (but not all) dates are willing to try Devotional Sex.
Often truth is stranger than fiction, and I must admit that if this story was fiction I would not find it believable.
For
me the best thing about this story being true is that I lived it.
Reading a story can be erotic and fun, but living it is of course
incredibly better!
My
first session with Ada shows just how good things can be when an
experienced Knight invites a normal women to be his Princess.
Men wanting to find a Princess using normal dating should pay lots of attention to why this session worked.
Well, it’s been a few weeks now since this story unfolded between Michael and me.
I’d
have to say that I was very curious about it all when he explained it
to me. I don’t think there would have been a second date, or I
would have gone back to Michael’s place, or even experimented
with him that first night, had I not immediately felt
that I was in a safe environment.
One thing that made me feel very safe
is that I knew that if I had wanted to stop at anytime, Michael would
have respected my wishes and stopped when asked.
Michael was not at all pushy and was patient and explained everything to me truthfully - both the good and the bad!
Again,
it was extremely important that he was not pushy and that he left it to
me to direct the flow of the night. I know that nothing would have
happened if I didn’t want it to and that is what made me a little
braver than usual that night.
Embracing being in control and
feeling safe and knowing I could stop at any time was why this all
worked so well for us that night.
Equally as important was that Michael
was so patient and truthful.
All
the time I was with Ada I was
telling her about Devotional Sex to guide what happened. But even
though there was lots of theoretical talk the main focus for us both
was just being in the moment of what we were doing. There was nothing clinical about our fun.
Everything that
happened was done without her being dominant. We only went further than
the foot massage with us both fully dressed because she trusted that I
would do as she said. She said yes to the my suggestions that she
liked, and ignored the others. And all of her suggestions happened.
For
example, when I was kneeling above her in the bedroom and admiring her
body, and I asked if I could play with myself she knew she could say
no.
When she said yes and I started to do this under my underpants if was
by then easy for her to ask me to take them down as she wanted to
watch.
And when later I lay back down it was easy for her to tell me to
pull my underpants back up.
None of this was dominating me. Because I was
very much feeling like her Knight she never needed to be assertive to
get me to behave.
The Devotional Dynamic fairly quickly felt normal and
natural to us both.
I very much enjoyed using my Princess Power with Michael but this never felt like I was dominating him.
What made the evening work so well was that she only did what she wanted to do.
Undress,
Reveal, Display, my giving her a foot massage as she teased me with her
naked Pleasure, Adore - all of these activities were incredibly
effective in making me feel like her Knight, and in increasing my
desire for her. But none of these would have worked if Ada had not
wanted to do them, and had not enjoyed what happened.
All our
erotic fun in the living room meant that when we went into the bedroom
I was her Knight. Not just I had promised to do only as she said, and
so I would, but that I really felt that her Princess Power was real,
and that my strongest desire in the bedroom was to give her oral sex.
In
the bedroom I felt incredible desire, but as I felt that I was hers, it
was easy to just quietly cuddle her after she rested after her two
orgasms. To me it felt right and natural just to enjoy desiring her and
to enjoy the cuddle.
If I had not felt this I would have felt
frustration that we had not gone further. I might have felt that things
were unfair because I had given her lots of pleasure but all that she
had done to me was hold and play with my Desire over my underpants.
But
everything we had done in the living room, and Ada's confidence in bed
meant that I did not feel any frustration, and that instead of thinking
things were unfair I felt privileged that she had allowed me to enjoy
pleasuring her.
When a man goes to bed for the first time with
an attractive women and it all goes well, it is normal for him to want
to do this again.
What is unusual with Ada is that I have never
felt so Knightly before in my desire to be with someone again. The less
Knightly I feel the more my future desires include wanting to go a bit
further than last time. Of course with Ada it would be great to go
further. But everything we did in our first night together left me
mainly wanting to do the same again.
There are so many great
memories of our time together, but perhaps the one that sums up
everything that had happened up till that time, and indicated what was
to follow, was when I was sitting naked at her feet with my head just a
few inches away from her naked Pleasure. All my attention and my desire
was focused on a Pleasure that I had not yet touched. The very visible
wetness of her Pleasure, with a drop of juice which made me ache to
taste her, was all showing that she desired me too. This is a
connection between a Princess and her Knight that I will never forget.
What
we did was very powerful stuff. I have never thought so much about a
women's Pleasure as in the days after our night together. What we did left me smitten with desire just to Adore her again.
