Jane and John: A weekend's self-imposed ejaculation denial

Last updated: 4 February 2010

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Jane and John

A weekend's self-imposed ejaculation denial - Part 1

In this story John is not a great lover, and sex with his partner Jane has become a routine of fairly quick intercourse without much foreplay beforehand.

When John decides to try a weekend of self-imposed ejaculation denial, both he and Jane experience some new joys as a result. But by Sunday some of the problems with ejaculation denial start to intrude.

Note that this story is about self-imposed ejaculation denial. So in this story John does not give Jane power over him.

Also this is not a story about Devotional Sex. One of the aims of Devotional Sex is to avoid the problems Jane and John experience on the last day of this story.

Before the big weekend

John has been reading about ejaculation denial and has become curious. He really likes parts of what he has been reading, but is unsure about whether or not it would work in practice for him.

Can not being allowed to ejaculate most times a man has sex really make sex more intense, fun, and better for man? And how would this change things for his partner?

He decides that the best way to find out is to give it a try.

He thinks that one weekend will be long enough to be a realistic test if he can convince Jane to have sex with him on the Friday night, on Saturday, and on Sunday!

Lots of sexual activity, and not allowing himself to cum until the end of the Sunday, will certainly be a challenge. But it will also be a good test of whether or not what he has read will work for him.

The idea of actually doing this makes John feel both excited and a bit nervous. He also wonders whether or not Jane, his partner, would be willing to try something so different.

On Friday morning he bites the bullet and decides that he will approach Jane that evening to see if she is willing to both have a sexy weekend with him and to let him try his experiment.

He phones Jane, and suggests going out for dinner that night.

Jane likes his proposal to eat out, and says she will meet him at the restaurant straight after work.

Friday evening

When Jane arrives at the restaurant she is pleasantly surprised to find that John has bought her some flowers. This is an unexpected treat.

After they order, John takes the plunge and tells Jane his plans ...

"I would like to try something a bit different this weekend" he says.

Jane looks puzzled. "Such as?"

"For a start, I was hoping we could enjoy a sexy weekend together," he replies with a smile.

That explains the flowers, thinks Jane. But she also likes the idea. Their sex life had become a bit too routine, and like many long established couples there were times when their busy lives got in the way. It would be good to rekindle the flame.

"I like the sound of that" says Jane.

"There is one other thing" says John. "I want to see if I can do this without ejaculating until the very end of Sunday night".

Jane is surprised. "Why would you want to do that?"

"Some people say that it makes sex feel very different. More intense. I'm curious to give it a try and see what it feels like."

Jane thinks about what John has said. Her first reaction is that it would not make much difference to her.

Then she thinks of one big difference - there would be no wet patch on the bed after that night's' sex!

"Well, you're the one who misses out if you don't cum" says Jane. "So I don't mind."

John is pleased that Jane had been so accepting of him trying his experiment. He had been worried that she might think the idea was too weird.

The prospect of the sexy weekend had enlivened them both, and they enjoyed their food and each other's company.

By the time they got back home Jane was still looking forward to the idea of having a sexy weekend with John, but had pretty much forgotten about John saying he did not want to ejaculate till the very end of the weekend.

John certainly had not forgotten about this part. He was wondering what it will feel like to not ejaculate after sex. And if they really did enjoy lots of sexual activity over the weekend, would he be able till last till the end of Sunday night?

Back home Jane puts the flowers into a vase. Before going to bed they do a few chores and watch some TV.

Friday bedtime

They retire to the bedroom earlier than usual.

Once in bed together their kissing, cuddling and foreplay is just the same as always - fairly quick.

After about five minutes of preliminaries, John moves on top of Jane and enters her in the missionary position. As usual he starts gently, and as usual he gradually pumps harder and faster.

After only a few minutes it feels to Jane as if John is about to cum.

John is at the point where he would usually let go. But if he is not going to ejaculate, now what?

He stops pumping.

He pushes his erection deep inside her and holds this position. After a few seconds of pushing his whole body against Jane, he relaxes and lies still on top of her - his erection still inside her.

It is only then that Jane remembers that John had said he was not going to ejaculate until Sunday night. She had felt that John was close, and she could tell that he had regained control of himself just in time.

He felt very hard inside her.

Before John can start gently pumping again, Jane asks "You're really not going to cum tonight?"

"I'm not", replies John, though inside he is not so sure that this is still a good idea.

Jane enjoys sex with John. But sometimes she wishes their intercourse was more about her pleasure.

John is happy for intercourse to only last for a few minutes. But for her it takes much longer to reach orgasm, and missionary was not her preferred position to reach climax. Now was her chance ...

"Well, if you're still going, I want to go on top" says Jane.

"OK" says John, and rolls off her.

Jane sits on John, and gently lowers herself onto his erection. If John is not going to cum, then his erection is hers to enjoy!

She sets the pace and the angle, and for about fifteen minutes slowly builds up the intensity. Eventually she reaches her peak, and her body shudders in the pleasure or her orgasm.

She moves her legs back, and lies down on top of John. His very hard erection is still inside her.

John was surprised that Jane had asked to go on top. He had been unsure of what to do after the point at which he would usually have cum. Jane's suggestion had worked well.

He had had to exert some self control to ensure that he had not cum while she was riding him, but most of the time it was just pleasure. He enjoyed seeing Jane loose herself in the pleasure of riding him, and was surprised at the intensity of her orgasm.

Jane comes back to the real world after her orgasm, and feels John's very hard erection still inside her. She does not feel like any further sexual activity after such a big orgasm, but knows that she now has to let John cum.

Why is it, she thinks, that when a man cums he can just roll over and go to sleep, but when a women has an orgasm she is always expected to continue with sexual activity until her partner ejaculates?

But once again she remembers John's challenge to himself. Tonight John is not going to cum, so she doesn't have to get him off.

"If you're not going to cum tonight, can I go to sleep now?" she asks.

John realizes that Jane is spent, and that it would not be a good idea to ask her for more sexual activity. And if he is not going to ejaculate, then sexual activity has to just stop at some stage, so it might as well be now.

"OK" he says "You will sleep well after that."

Jane rolls off John, and lies down beside him, resting her head on his chest. "That was great!" she says.

As they cuddle Jane realizes how wrong she had been to think that John's idea of not ejaculating would not make a difference to her. Instead of just a the usual two minutes of intercourse in the missionary position, tonight there had been an extra fifteen minutes of her riding him. And instead of just John having an orgasm, tonight it was just her who had enjoyed an orgasm.

This was making a big difference, and she liked it!

Though Jane was now feeling very relaxed and sleepy, it was very obvious to her that John was still hard and wanting.

She moves her hand down to take hold of his erection.

But to John's dismay she just gives it a playful squeeze, and says "Good night dear". She then lets go of his erection and rolls over with her back to John.

John moves to cuddle Jane from behind.

Jane can feel his hard erection against her bottom. Though this feels very strange, she is so tired that she is soon asleep.

While their time in bed was very different from usual for Jane, it felt even stranger for John.

He realizes that all the time that Jane was on top was extra sex compared with usual. He very much enjoyed this, and was thrilled that Jane had enjoyed herself so much.

When Jane had held his erection before she rolled over he had still been thinking about her on top of him. Her touch had felt amazing.

With these thoughts John rolls his hips slightly to rub hs erection against Jan'es bottom. But as it was clear that she was either already asleep or very close to it, he thought that he had better stop the rubbing and just lie still.

Though his unsatisfied arousal was frustrating, as he cuddled Jane from behind he felt strong love and desire for her.

John could not get to sleep as quickly as Jane had. He just lay quietly with his mind full of sexy thoughts.

He was still hard when he eventually drifted into sleep.

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