Last updated: 2 February 2009
Michael says:
Thursday, 8 January - Our 14th date. 7 days since my last Climax.
As usual, our time together today ended with us enjoying some time in bed.
Tonight was very different though, because tonight things ended with Joy in the Power position, and Ada having me Climax inside her. This was only the second time I had Climaxed with Ada.
Ada says: It had been a while since Michael had cum and he was feeling all fidgety.
I asked him to cum inside me (wearing a condom of course). I was curious to find out what this would feel like.
I didn’t really understand why he wouldn’t / couldn’t, but he did anyway.
I was very much enjoying practicing Devotional Sex with Ada.
Devotional Sex is actually a balancing act between erotic power, desire, and expectation. I did not want to upset this balance.
My reluctance to cum with Ada was only due to my wanting to keep our Devotional Sex dynamic working properly.
Devotional
Dating does not allow the Knight to ejaculate when with his Princess
because this ensures that he is never expecting to end a session with
this significant pleasure. This keeps the Knight's focus on his
Princess. This dynamic also does not need the Princess to take control
of her Knight's ejaculations - the Knight does this for her.
Ada
was not wanting to move to a Devotional Relationship, as she did not
want the responsibility of controlling my ejaculations.
But since December 20 I had only ejaculated when Ada wished, and I had held on when this pleased her.
I
now realized that we were really much more in a Devotional Relationship
than Devotional Dating, even if this had not been formalized.
Today,
after ejaculating inside Ada, I decided that I would from now on act as
if we are in a Devotional Relationship. From now on I would always cum
when and how Ada wished, and I would never cum when Ada wanted me to
last longer.
The only difference between this and a real
Devotional Relationship is that Ada may sometimes let me make up my own
mind whether or not to cum.
My thinking of our Devotional Sex
status in this new way means that from now on I feel much more under
her control and much more her Knight. I am now happy to ejaculate
whenever she wishes, and this includes ejaculating when I am with her.
Ejaculating inside her tonight felt
very special. Usually after sex I still have high erotic energy just
after we finish - but tonight my energy had been discharged.
Usually after sex Ada is tired, especially if she had enjoyed an orgasm. But tonight my cumming insider her had energized her.
This is a pleasure that I look forward to repeating.
Saturday, 10 January - Our 15th date. 2 days since my last Climax.
Today we went out for brunch, and then on a shopping expedition.
Once home (in mid afternoon) Ada had me Reveal
in the living room. This was not to be our usual long session of
Affirmation as she then said "into the bedroom".
In bed she enjoyed her
longest session of Pleasure Kissing so far, but she ended this before
having an orgasm. We then had Joy in the Ride position.
Ada says: It was just the time of month where I was, shall we say, `a little randy..´.
While Michael was inside me, with me on top, he came (without cumming). He calls this Cresting.
This was a great feeling - it just pushed me over the edge and made me cum too.
Now that I was
more used to enjoying this with Ada I was more relaxed about not
Climaxing. To my pleasure I found my self Cresting
as she rode me. My Crests excited her, and she orgasmed as she rode me.
We ended the afternoon session with a Calm-Down Cuddle.
Later we went out for some fish and chips in the park, and watched some TV in the evening (without any Affirmation).
For the first time Ada stayed the night.
Our cuddle before she went to sleep went no further than a Devotional Cuddle.
Sunday, 11 January - Our 15th date continued. 3 days since my last Climax.
This morning, for the first time, I woke up with Ada.
We enjoyed a long morning cuddle in bed.
After this long lie in Ada said "Ritual".
She surprised me by keeping her legs together, and we had our first Ritual Cuddle.
After a few minutes she parted her legs and we both enjoyed Ada's first
`good morning´ Pleasure Kiss.
Ada orgasmed from my kisses, and we
ended our morning cuddle with a Devotional Cuddle.
Wednesday, 14 January - 6 days since my last Climax.
Today I was feeling
rather squirmy as I had not Climaxed for a while.
I emailed Ada, who I
am seeing tomorrow evening, to find out if tomorrow she would prefer a
squirmy Knight or a much calmer Knight.
She replied that she preferred
a calm Knight.
Before bed I made myself Climax, and very much felt my erotic energy disappear.
Thursday, 15 January - Our 16th date. 1 day since my last Climax.
A
morning email from Ada said "Falling asleep last night knowing that you
were going to carry out my command later that night, and waking up this
morning knowing that you had, was a good feeling inside me!"
Though
we have not formally started a Devotional Relationship it now feels
right for me to only Climax when Ada wishes.
I felt very happy that Ada had enjoyed her power to make me cum when she wished.
After work Ada arrived at my place. We cooked and ate dinner.
When
we moved into the living room, Ada said "Reveal".
As always I felt a stirring of arousal as I took all my clothes off as she watched. I am sure that she enjoyed seeing my Desire grow a bit as I walked up to her to give her a hug.
We then enjoyed cuddling each other on the couch. As always I felt very much her
Knight due to my nudity and her being dressed.
She then asked to
see this blog, which I had only started writing yesterday.
For
the next
few hours we sat on the couch together writing and editing this blog,
including Ada typing in her comments for the earlier entries.
I got very aroused as I watched Ada type in
how much she had enjoyed giving me oral sex the first time on December 21.
As I was
naked, my arousal was rather obvious.
Ada
says: I noticed Michael's arousal, and decided to liven things up a
little bit.
While he was editing the blog I lent down and started to
give him a Desire Kiss. He stopped what he was doing straight away, but
I asked him to carry on.
I thought this was a sexy and fun way for him to do the writing of this blog!
While Ada was giving me a Desire Kiss she paused at one stage and asked me
whether this was "interrupting my work?"
I replied that though it was
slowing down my typing, it was also giving me something to write about, and
so I was very happy for her to continue :-)
This was only the third time Ada had given me a Desire Kiss, and it felt very, very good.
After
editing the blog for a bit longer we went into the bedroom. As it was
the wrong time of the month, Ada did not want to do much and she got
into bed still wearing her clothes. I was still naked.
We
cuddled in bed for a while. I was still excited from the memories of
the Desire Kiss, and asked for a Devotional Cuddle. Ada said "Be Cuddled", and I lay on my side facing away from her so she could cuddle me from behind.
She put her hand down so she could play with me, and we lay quietly as she played with my erection.
I
was feeling both very aroused and calm at the same time. Soon I had a
non-ejaculatory orgasm. Then another one. Soon I was enjoying one Crest after another. For about a minute Ada played with me as I kept shuddering with orgasms.
This was not only very pleasurable, but I felt good that Ada was able to give me so much pleasure.
After
this we cuddled for longer. At one stage Ada allowed me to play with
her breasts and nipples under her shirt. But most of the rest of our
time in bed was just cuddling.
Eventually Ada woke up a bit more, and found the energy to get up and to drive back home.
Saturday, 17 January - Our 17th date. 3 days since my last Climax.
Today I had mild flu, and was not feeling all that well.
In the early evening Ada rang. She said she was very tired, but would like to come over anyway.
Ada says: Michael
had said he was'’t feeling a 100 percent but he did say he still would
like to see me that night. I was tired from work but still wanted to
catch up with Michael. So I went over to his house.
When she arrived it was not long before she said "Reveal", and we then enjoyed a cuddle on the couch.
She started to gently play with my soft Desire.
As I was sick it took much longer than usual to get hard. I found it
very exciting to feel her play with me as we both watched my Desire
slowly become harder and harder.
Once I was fully erect Ada had another surprise. She lent down and gave me a Desire Kiss.
She
then had me lie down on the couch with some pillows under my head.
With my head raised I could easily watch as she gave me some more oral
sex.
I
gave Michael a Desire Kiss, and, as he was looking at me, I decided to
offer him a few pillows so that he would be more comfortable doing
that.
I thought this was a fun little interlude that he and I could both
enjoy in the moment.
When she stopped giving me the Desire Kiss she lay down with her head at the other
end of the couch.
There I was naked and fully erect, while she was fully
dressed and smiling at me. My Desire needed attention, so I asked if I
could play with myself. Ada said I could.
The
Devotional dynamic
felt very strong as I played with myself while she watched. This fun
and erotic Devotional Sex moment would have made a great photo.
After a while Ada asked to see what I had got up to
with this blog.
I
was curious to see what new entries / editing Michael had done on our
Blog, so I had him look it up on the computer for me.
We sat on the couch together, me still naked and
half aroused, as she read what had changed and the new entries. The
writing about Desire Kisses had certainly changed things because again
she gave me a few quick kisses as we looked at this blog and wrote some
more.
By the time that Ada had had enough of looking at the blog I could
tell that she was too tired to be able to stay awake if we watched
anything on TV. So instead we went to bed for a cuddle.
After a while
Michael noticed that I was tired, and he suggested we go to bed.
We lay
together for a while and cuddled. I was too tired to do anything else.
Our time on the couch had been incredibly sexy and arousing for me. But our time in bed was to be just cuddles.
This
time Ada took her top off, and I very much enjoyed holding her breasts
as we cuddled. At one stage she let me suck her nipples and kiss her
breasts, but not for long.
Ada was so tired that in bed tonight we did not even get as far as a Devotional Cuddle.
Though
tonight's lack of activity in bed was disappointing and frustrating for
a horny Knight, it is exactly how Devotional Sex is meant to work.
With
Devotional Sex it is right for the Knight to be wanting erotic activity
all the time. Amazing things can happen, just like our time on the
couch today.
But no real-life Princess is going to want erotic
activity all of the time. Ada was tired when she arrived, so really our
fun on the couch was a bonus.
Ada is now acting and feeling like a true Princess because she knew that going to bed for a
cuddle can be just a cuddle.
Of course her Knight would want more - a Knight should always be desiring his Princess. And a hard Desire simply means that he is desiring her.
But
even beyond feeling comfortable that she could go to bed with her
aroused Knight and just cuddle, Ada is now also relaxed about getting
me very aroused even if she does not want things to go further.
If we were dating normally then nothing would
have happened in the living room because Ada was too tired for sex, and
normal dating says that a women who does not want sex should avoid
getting her man aroused.
Devotional
Sex is different because
teasing by a Princess is always allowed, and each moment of male
arousal is a good thing for a Knight even if it does not lead to
further activity. Ada had fun getting and keeping me aroused on the
couch because she knew that this need not lead on to other activities.
Whether Ada was thinking about this as
logically as I have presented it above, or if she is just doing this
subconsciously as a natural Princess, I don't know. My guess that
it is more subconscious.
When Ada read the above she told me that her actions just felt like the normal (for us) thing to do.
Ada added: When I had arrived at Michael's I knew that I didn't want any Ritual or Joy that night.
Even so, I still wanted to
play around with him on the couch. Also, as he was not feeling well, I thought this would cheer him up a bit!
On the couch I was just thinking of the
moment and wanted to give him a Desire Kiss.
At that time I never thought about later on in the evening, or that getting Michael aroused would make him expect a
follow-up from me later on. I was now so used to Devotional Sex with Michael that I knew that later on in the evening we
would just do, or not do, whatever I wanted.
Later, when we went to bed, even though Michael was aroused, I didn't feel any pressure to do anything.
One
of the problems with explaining Devotional Sex on this site is that I
have to say what is done and explain why. This can make it seem that
practicing Devotional Sex is all about following rules and guidelines.
As sex is meant to be erotic and fun, having to follow rules and guidelines sounds like a big turn-off.
The
beauty and satisfaction of Devotional Sex is that though things may
feel a bit strange at first (which is not all bad because the first
experimentation can be lots of fun), it all very quickly becomes just
your normal way of doing things.
Today's fun on the couch, and
just a cuddle in bed later, was real Devotional Sex. Not because we
were following the rules, but because what we did now felt like our
natural and normal way to be together.
What happened tonight also shows why Devotional Sex is a lifestyle. Our time in bed was as much Devotional Sex as our fun on the couch.
Because of my higher than usual erotic energy,
I was at times hard and erect when in bed. As Ada's Knight I had to
channel my erotic energy into just enjoying the cuddle. So the no sex
in bed was still Devotional Sex for me.
The Devotional Sex
aspect for Ada was that she could be fully relaxed and comfortable
enjoying just a cuddle even though I was sometimes aroused. She had not
switched off Devotional Sex, but was using it to enjoy time with her
Knight without any sexual activity.
If I had not been sick then Ada might have
spent the night. But as I needed a really good night's sleep, she went
home about 10:30 pm
As Michael was not
feeling well that day, I decided not to spend the night
so that he would have a good night’s sleep.
