Sunday, 22 MarchOur 38th date. 1 day since my last Climax. Michael writes:
Ada came over at about 12:30 pm.
Neither of us had eaten yet today, so we quickly went out for some much wanted lunch.
After
enjoying some good food and each other's company we went shopping. Ada
is wanting some new furniture and a new TV, so we went to a large store
that stocked both. Being a Sunday afternoon the store was full of
couples.
When we got back home in the middle of the afternoon
Ada immediately said "Reveal". After Friday night's lack of interest in
this it felt very good that my Princess wanted her Knight naked again.
She
watched me undress, and then indicated that I was to move closer. She
then took my Desire in her hand, moved it from side to side, and said
"It's still there".
After such an explicit recognition of my nudity, she let go of my Desire, and our first activity was over.
After about 15 minutes of Affirmation Ada walked out of the living room, indicating that I was to follow.
She
led me to the bedroom. She took off everything except her panties and
lay on the bed. Still naked from my Affirmation, I lay next to her.
Ada
said "Be Small", and I moved down a bit to cuddle her with my head on
her chest. As I got into position I gave her nipple a gentle lick.
Ada
said "Move up a b..." just as I kissed her nipple. She liked what I
was doing, so without finishing her last sentence she said "No, stay
like that."
For a while I cuddled Ada while gently licking and sucking her nipples.
Even though I had cum only yesterday, I quickly became aroused.
This was a lovely way to start a lazy Sunday afternoon's cuddle.
Ada
then wanted to hold my Desire, so I had to move up a bit. It felt great
as her hand wrapped around my erection. I told Ada how nice it felt,
and how much I loved cuddling her while she held me.
I
love being aroused when I am with my Princess. Her holding my erection
not only feels good, but it has me feeling that my arousal is accepted
and appreciated.
Her holding my erection also means that I know that she feels my desire to engage in further sexual activity. But we we
both know that what, if anything, happens next is totally up to my
Princess. So to me a Devotional Cuddle always has an element of active Princess Power.
For me a Devotional Cuddle is a lovely mix of arousal, pleasure from her hold, and feeling that I am hers.
Ada asked
how long it had been since I had last cum. I reminded her that I had cum
yesterday, and so it was only one day. She commented that I was very
squirmy and hard given the short time.
Ada said "Unwrap". I moved down, kissed the top of her panties, and then took them off.
I
thought more might follow, but she just wanted some more Devotional
Cuddle. Her holding my erection felt so good that I did not mind.
Ada then said "Ritual". As I moved down to obey her command I found that her legs were together, so I gave
her a Ritual Cuddle. My little kisses and nuzzles left Ada in no doubt
about what I wanted to do next.
Ada
has read my earlier comments in this Blog about Ritual Cuddles, and I
think that this has had an effect. She has started to enjoy teasing me
this way much more often than before. It is a very effective tease for us both. Ada
knows what she is going to do next. She can have fun teasing me first,
plus she gets the anticipation from feeling my keenness to give her a
Pleasure Kiss before I am allowed to do so.
Her teasing me this way is even more effective because not all of our Ritual Cuddles progress to a Pleasure Kiss. So when giving her a Ritual Cuddle I now don't know what to expect next.
Giving a Ritual
Cuddle has me very much thinking of my Princess's Pleasure and wanting
to kiss it. So when Ada parted her legs and I moved between
them, the first touch of my lips to her Pleasure felt very special to
us both. The little bit of anticipation very much adds to the pleasure.
I knew that sessions such as this often ended after Ada orgasmed, and so it was unlikely that there would be any Joy after her orgasm.
As
I had cum yesterday I knew that I would not be allowed to cum today. So
I knew that some of the high arousal I was feeling as I gave Ada the
Pleasure Kiss would remain with me for the rest of the day. Knowing
that she would reach satisfaction, but that I would still be very horny
after this session made me feel very much her Knight.
I also
expected that after our time in bed Ada would continue with the
Affirmation, and so for the rest of our time together I would be
both feeling and looking very Knightly.
As
I was giving Ada her Pleasure Kiss I also thought about how different
my life probably was compared to the other couples I had noticed while
we were shopping.
How many of them would have enjoyed some Sunday afternoon sex once they got home?
If any of them had done so, would their only major sexual activity be the man bringing his partner to orgasm with some oral sex?
And
would any of the men then spend the rest of the day naked with their
partner, and very much enjoy doing so because they still had the
erotic energy from the session in bed because they had not been allowed to cum?
Certainly what Ada and I was enjoying was probably very different. And this was a very different that I was very much enjoying.
Ada orgasmed from my Pleasure Kissing.
I moved up to cuddle her, and she reached down to take hold of my erection.
She was exhausted from her orgasm, but I was incredibly aroused from what we had just enjoyed.
Ada again commented on how hard I was.
After a few minutes of enjoying this Devotional Cuddle, Ada got up to go to the bathroom.
I was still feeling very aroused, and I gently played with myself as I waited for her to come back.
When she did I asked for a bit more Devotional Cuddle.
Ada
was happy to oblige, and told me to "Be Cuddled". I rolled over to face
away from her. She cuddled me from behind, and reached over me to hold
my erection.
Ada started looking at the reflection of us in the
mirror on my side of the bed. When she told me how sexy she thought it
looked, I put on my glasses and also looked.
It did look very sexy! I very much enjoyed watching Ada's hand move up and down my erection.
I was still feeling very aroused, and Ada yet again mentioned how hard I was.
She started playing with me fairly actively, and soon I started to Crest. For about two minutes I enjoyed Crest after Crest.
Ada loves making me Crest, and her hand became even more active as my intensity built.
Normally
during and just after Cresting I do not feel close to ejaculation. But
this time, with Ada's more active hands, I realized that if she kept
going I might Climax.
I asked Ada to be slow and gentle for a while, as otherwise I might cum.
Ada surprised me by saying "I would like that. Lie on your back."
Given my high arousal, and my feeling that I was close to Climaxing, a part of me really liked the idea of Climaxing now.
But
I also knew that if I did so I would have no energy for the rest of the
day. The rest of the afternoon would then be nothing like what I had been thinking about while giving her the Pleasure Kiss.
Sometimes, as recorded in this Blog, a Princess decides to challenge
her Knight and make him last for much longer than usual.
But a Princess's control over when her Knight can Climax in
Devotional Sex is not just about keeping him going for a long time.
Sometimes a Princess does not want her Knight to have high erotic energy, so she has him ejaculate a few days earlier than usual.
What
Ada had decided now was not about controlling my energy. Ada was just
enjoying my arousal and my erection so much that she wanted to make me
cum.
So
the third thought I had was pleasure that Ada was doing this because
she really wanted to enjoy making me cum. My now having to do so when
this was so unexpected once again had me feeling very much her Knight.
Ada
partly sat up so that she could closely watch my Desire. I could not resist the
pleasure from her hands, and soon I had a very powerful ejaculation.
I really felt my erotic energy plummet. I was now a very conked Knight.
We both rested for a while. When we got up I was allowed to put my clothes on.
I
had not yet listened to my Sunday Bach, so we went into the living room and
relaxed with the music. We then watched some TV, had dinner, and
watched a DVD.
Before she left this evening Ada had me go into the bedroom with her. She lay down with her clothes on.
I asked if she wanted me to Reveal, and she said "yes".
None
of my erotic energy had returned since my Climax this afternoon, so it
felt strange undressing now and having a lie down on the bed.
Ada
was amazed and surprised by my lack of erotic energy. Every once-in-a-while
she grabbed my Desire just to confirm to herself that it was not hard.
Michael comments:
I
think that next time Ada starts to think it would be fun for her to
have me cum in the morning or the afternoon, she will from now on consider more carefully what she
wants from her Knight for the rest of the day.
If she does not mind her
Knight being conked for the rest of the day then she will still have me
cum.
But if she wants our strong Devotional dynamic to continue, she
might decide not to have me cum so she can enjoy her Knight again later that day.
It is easy for me. What happens next time is totally up to my Princess.
During our final in-bed cuddle I said to Ada "I guess I'm usually a bit like a dog in the park that just
wants to play, but now I'm too conked to play".
Ada replied "No, you're usually more like an eager puppy that
wants to play".
Ada very much missed my energy. This, to her, was not how a cuddle with her Knight was meant to be!
I
suspect that she also would have liked some erotic activity. But she
never tried to get me hard, and she did not ask me to do
anything sexual.
A cuddle when I have no erotic energy
is just not the same!
Michael comments:
This
Blog is just about my Devotional Sex life with Ada. Everything else is
either not mentioned or only briefly mentioned. Even though this Blog
does not cover everything we do, the Blog does show how my high erotic energy
makes practicing Devotional Sex a lifestyle which is almost always a
part of my interactions with Ada.
Devotional Sex is not just a sexual practice that
happens when we go into the bedroom.
Our
time together after my afternoon Climax gave as both a glimpse of what
life together would be like if we were not practicing Devotional Sex.
For
Ada my being her Knight is something that is there whenever she wants
me to be her Knight, but something that she often forgets about.
As made clear by Ada's comments in some earlier Blog entries, even when we are enjoying Affirmation time together she will often
forget about this and go on with normal life.
But whenever she wants to feel like a
Princess, her Knight is ready and willing.
During most of our time
together today after my afternoon Climax Ada was in `getting on with normal
life´ mode. So my lack of erotic energy did not make much
difference to her.
But as soon as she wanted to be a Princess it felf very
different because today she did not just instantly have me acting and feeling in Knight mode.
Even
if she had only wanted a cuddle when we went to bed just before she
left, my lack of arousal and my not having an erection made this cuddle
feel very different. Without my usual energy it felt to her like I did
not really want to be there.
For me our time together today after my
Climax felt slightly different because for once I was not in background Knight mode.
I did not actually feel this difference as much as would be expected because
my lack of erotic energy meant that I did not think about being in
Knight mode, and so I did not actively miss it.
Going to bed for our
final cuddle did feel very different because without my usual erotic
energy it felt like a lot of effort to go to bed, get undressed, and
then cuddle. For once I would have felt that a fully-clothed, goodbye hug would have been enough.
The cuddling in bed was nice and restful. It was not, like
Ada felt, that I did not want to be there. It was that I did not feel
my usual `I really want to be here´.
Devotional Sex is powered by the Knight's constant high erotic energy. Without this energy it just does not work.
Today
showed just how different from our usual it is for us to spend time
together when I have no erotic energy. I think this taste of most
people's normality was enough for us both to confirm that our
Devotional Sex lifestyle is much more fun and fulfilling for us both.
