Last updated: 16 February 2009
Michael writes:
Sunday, 28 December - Our 10th date. 8 days since my last Climax.
I
had been away visiting relatives for 6 days.
Before
I had gone away Ada had been unhappy that I would be away for so long. To make her feel
special, I had said that if she wished
I would not Climax while I was away. I had told that this would mean that
my erotic energy would continue to increase, and thus I would think about
her even more while I was away.
She liked the idea of me `holding on´ for her, and so
while I was away I did not cum.
Now that I was back we spent the
day together. We enjoyed lots of Affirmation in the Living Room, and lots of cuddles and other activities in bed.
As was usual, at the end of our time in bed we finished with
a Devotional Cuddle and I did not cum.
Even
though I had not cum for 8 days, because I had enjoyed so much sexual
activity that day, by the time Ada went home I felt fully satisfied.
I could
still feel my erotic energy, but I did not feel even tempted to bring
myself to Climax.
Monday, 29 December - 9 days since my last Climax.
With Devotional Dating a Knight manages his own erotic energy by choosing when he will masturbate to Climax.
Today
my erotic energy was very high, and it was no longer calmed by having
just had lots of sex. Today my balls felt full, and I had more erotic
energy than I had had for ages.
But today it felt right to me to
keep this energy for tomorrow when I would see Ada next. So today, even
though I enjoyed lots of self Desire Play, I did not Climax.
Tuesday, 30 December - Our 11th date. 10 days since my last Climax.
Today I was very charged up during our evenings activities as this was the
longest without a Climax that I had been for a while.
At the end
of our time in bed Ada was wanting to see me ejaculate, as I had never
done so with her.
Ada writes: We were in bed, and I realized that I had never seen Michael ejaculate. Even though he had explained that with Devotional Dating he was not supposed to do this in front of me, it still felt weird that he had never done this with me. His explanation hadn't stopped me from wondering if it was a case of him holding back, or if he just couldn't ejaculate with me.
After 11 dates, and almost two months of seeing each
other, I thought that Ada deserved an exception from the rule that with
Devotional Dating a Knight never ejaculates when with his Princess. So
I said I would cum if she wanted.
He did as I wished.
I
think it made me feel (emotionally) closer to him because it felt to me
like this was a private moment that as a general rule wouldn’t
include me in the picture.
She had me play with myself and, for
the first time with her, I ejaculated. It felt rather special that she was watching me do this.
In Devotional Dating a Knight is meant to never ejaculate when with his Princess, but he can do what he wants when he is not with her. In a Devotional Relationship a Knight can only ejaculate when his Princess says, and he can ejaculate when with his Princess.
Though
we had not discussed it, the fact that I had restrained from
ejaculating while I was away because this pleased my Princess had me
feeling that things were moving towards a Devotional Relationship. So
rather than us breaking the rules of Devotional Dating I think we were
just naturally moving towards forming a Devotional Relationship.
Thursday, 1 January -
Our 12th date. 2 days since my last Climax.
At the start of our time together Ada said "Reveal", and today I was to spend many hours with her this way.
On an earlier date I had talked with Ada about some of my sex toys, and this included mentioning butt plugs.
Today Ada was curious, and asked me to show her some of what I had.
Ada says:
We were just hanging out together, and as I was slightly bored I
remembered Michael had said that he had some toys stashed away in his
cupboard.
The only time I had ever seen sex toys before this
was in a shop, and in a shop you don’t really get a good feel of
it as it's usually in a box. So I asked Michael to show me some of his
toys, and to tell me how were they used.
The butt plug looked
interesting, so I asked him to show me how he would wear this. As
instructed, Michael put the butt plug inside himself.
Ada then
very much surprised me by telling me to put the smallest butt plug into myself in front of her.
I did this, and then put on a
G-string with the front cut out (so my Desire was still evident) to hold the butt plug in place.
As
he was doing this I asked lots of questions, and as usual Michael was
very good in explaining everything to me and answered my hundreds of
questions.
I
asked him how long he would be able to wear this without being
uncomfortable, and Michael gave me a ball park figure. He added that he
would let me know if it got too uncomfortable.
It was
interestingly weird to see someone insert a butt plug in themselves.
I'd never seen anyone do this so it was ... different.
Ada
then had me give her a foot massage.
We both enjoyed her power over me,
and with the foot that I was not massaging Ada sometimes gave my
semi-hard Desire a little touch.
We then decided to watch a DVD together. Michael still had the butt plug in as he set up the DVD.
I was feeling playful and wanted a kiss and a cuddle, and probably wanted something more as well.
I
was very annoyed when he wouldn't let me give him a spontaneous kiss on
the lips while he was setting up the DVD (after all, watching the DVD
wasn’t really the aim of the afternoon but a means to hanging out
together).
Anyway, that ruined the mood for me and we sat watching the DVD in silence for a while.
Michael
realized I was annoyed (probably not why till reading this I’m
sure) and tried to bridge the silent gap between us.
I decided not to be moody and ruin the rest of the afternoon, and after a while we cuddled each other again.
When
I was half way through
setting the DVD up, Ada wanted to sit on my lap to give me a
spontaneous kiss. I said "wait a minute" which was the wrong thing to
say, as this broke the mood.
We then watched the DVD together, and
after a while the mood improved and Ada cuddled me on the couch.
Once the mood improved our watching the DVD together had a very powerful and fun Devotional dynamic. Ada
was still fully dressed, and I was naked with a small butt plug
inserted!
I very much enjoyed this Submissive Cuddle, and the butt plug just added to the intensity.
After wearing the butt plug for about 80 minutes, Ada said I could take it out.
A bit later we went to bed. Ada orgasmed from a Pleasure Kiss, and we ended with a Devotional Cuddle.
The
last time we were in bed together had ended with my Climaxing. Ada was
now so used to our Devotional Dating that tonight there was no mention
or expectation that I would Climax with her.
Our last session had also
included lots of Joy, and an earlier session had even included my getting a Desire Kiss, but tonight Ada only wanted to enjoy our cuddles
and her Pleasure Kiss.
I felt very much her Knight as we ended our
activities with a Devotional Cuddle as it was clear that tonight Ada
had enjoyed what she wanted to enjoy, and felt under no pressure to do
more.
Sunday, 4 January - Our 13th date. 3 days since my last Climax.
Ada writes: Yay - it was Sunday!
We
were going to go out to dinner that night with some of Michael's
friends, so to make sure we did not miss out on our private fun, I came
over to Michael's house early enough for a mid-afternoon romp in the
bedroom!
Today Ada surprised me by leading me to the bedroom almost as soon as she arrived that afternoon.
Our main activities during that joyful afternoon romp were a Pleasure Kiss, then Joy in the Ride position during which Ada orgasmed, then some gentle Joy in the Rest position, and ending with a short Devotional Cuddle.
I then had a little snooze, and when I woke up I showered and dressed.
Michael showed me the same toys he had shown me the other day and asked if I wanted him to use any.
He wouldn't have shown them to me if he hadn't been interested in using them, so I picked one for him.
I
was tossing up between having him wear a cock strap with or without a
metal lead. The one with the lead looked interesting, but I ended up
picking the plain one without the lead. I thought it prudent to
not pick the one that was over the top, and I didn't want the other
people at the dinner table to notice a metal lead hanging out of his
pants!
Before
going out to dinner that night with a group of my friends, I showed Ada some of my
other toys that could be worn by me when out in public. Ada liked the idea of
having me wear something, and chose the Cock Strap. She watched me put this on, and then get fully dressed, and then we went out to dinner.
Of
course I had not cum during our afternoon session in bed, so I was
still energized while we had dinner. I could also feel the cock-strap
around my manhood. I felt very much Ada's Knight as we were eating.
After
finishing up at the restaurant most of the group left, but my friend Tracey came back to my place with me and Ada. She only stayed a short
time, and then Ada and I were alone together again.
We went to bed, and the only thing that happened was a Devotional Cuddle.
While in bed I told Ada that I would be happy for us to move to a Devotional Relationship, but she did not like this idea as she did not want to take responsibility for when I could Climax.
After a bit more cuddling in bed, we both got up, and Ada went back to her place.
