Last updated: 18 March 2009
Saturday, 28 February Our 32nd date. 2 days since my last Climax.
Michael writes:
Ada came round about 11 am, and we went out for Brunch and then did some shopping.
As soon as we got home in the early afternoon Ada said "Reveal". She wanted to get more comfy too, and she took off her pants.
Ada sat on the couch in her panties and top and watched me undress.
She
then had me walk up to her, and once I was standing in front of her she started playing with my Desire. It
quickly grew.
Michael comments:
I
really love the way that Ada
often gets me aroused for a few minutes of sexual activity as soon as
we are alone in private together. Usually this is only for a few
minutes, and then we do something else. Though it is only a minute or
two of activity, these few minutes create an erotic atmosphere that
continues for the rest of our
time together.Of course this is even more effective when this happens at the start of my Affirmation
as my nudity for the rest of our time together has now been explicitly
sexualized. This keeps my nudity from becoming just naturalism, and
keeps me aware that at any time my Princess may do something that makes
me aroused again.
We both enjoyed her touching me for a minute or
two.
I was very aroused when she put her hand down to end her playing with me. I asked if she
would like me to Display as I really did not want to end my arousal. I was very pleased when she said "yes".
Ada
then asked me turn to my side so she could enjoy watching me from a
better angle. This made me feel much more hers because my Displaying
myself was now not just something I had asked to do, but something that
she was enjoying watching me do.
For over ten minutes I stood
naked in front of her gently playing with myself. This is probably the
longest time I had done this, and I really enjoyed feeling hers as I
stood there.
Last
night Ada had read the first draft of my comments in yesterday's Blog entry about her not giving
me much oral sex (which is how she put it). As I was Displaying
myself to her we talked about this.
I told her that one good thing
about the way we were doing things is that at times like this (my
Displaying myself to her) I was not thinking about me getting oral sex
but wanting to give it to her. And that as long as I felt very much her
Knight I was comfortable with things as they were.
It is pretty
hard to complain about my sex life when it is as active and amazing as
recorded in this Blog. I think the end result of this part of our
conversation is that Ada knew that I was very happy to be her Knight.
Ada then had me give her a foot massage. It felt nice to be sitting naked at her feet while doing this.
Michael comments:The first point in the Definition of Devotional Sex is that a Princess is a woman who `confidently uses her Princess Power
to take pleasure in life as a Princess´. Her enjoying sexual pleasures
is an obvious part of this, but it also means sensual and relaxing
pleasures such as getting a foot massage. It
has probably been too long since Ada's last foot massage, and I need to
be a better Knight and offer them to her more often. And things would
work better for both of us if Ada remembered to exploit her Princess
Power more by asking for pleasures such as this more often.
During
the foot massage we talked more, and I told Ada about some of my
earlier partners. I think she was very interested to know a bit more
about my romantic past as well as how Devotional Sex had worked in my
earlier relationships.
After the foot massage we went to bed for a cuddle. As she got into bed she took off her top, but she kept her panties on.
For
about five minutes we enjoyed a very close Devotional Cuddle.
This early afternoon cuddle did not lead to any further activities.
Michael adds:
I
love it that Ada can always enjoy my being aroused with her because she
feels
comfortable that this does not mean further sexual activity must
follow. And because I am relaxed that it is up to my Princess to decide
what, if anything, happens next, I feel that I can fully let myself go
and enjoy feeling aroused.
For
a man who thinks that being aroused must lead to sexual activity and
then to his Climax, the idea of enjoying a Devotional Cuddle without
anything else happening next will seem very strange. And a woman who
thinks that having a very aroused man in bed with her requires her to
either reject him by saying "no" or to engage in sex will find it
strange that Ada could enjoy my arousal and also feel relaxed about not
taking things further.
This
cuddle was a time when those strange aspects of Devotional Sex just
really worked. I felt so connected with my Princess during this
Devotional Cuddle - I was so happy to be her Knight.
And I
think Ada really enjoyed my energy and desire for her, and was looking
forward to doing something with this energy later that day.
After a
while Ada let go of my erection and rolled over. I then cuddled her from behind. Even when Ada is only wanting a
resting cuddle she likes me to hold her breast, and for a few minutes
we cuddled this way.
Ada
was wanting a little sleep (so she could more easily stay up a little
later tonight), so I left the room so I would not disturb her.
Now I sit naked at the computer having just typed the first draft of today's entry up till now.
After her sleep Ada came back into the living room. She had put her top back on, and was now wearing some shorts.
We had a welcoming cuddle.
We
then looked to see who had been reading this site, noting that someone
from our home city of Melbourne had read many pages of this Blog. (If you know one
us please let us know you are reading this, and if you don't know us
you are welcome to say `hi´ - use the Contact page.)
I
also showed Ada that a Spanish Blogger had mentioned this site (in Spanish, see http://dominacion-amorosa.blogspot.com/ ), and one
person had clicked the link from this Spanish Blog to this site.
Michael comments:
My
site statistics tell me many things, including where in the world the
site is viewed. Your privacy is maintained because apart from knowing
your home city I know nothing else about you.
Ada
knew
that I had a collection of amateur porn photos on my computer, and she
was curious to see some of them. So for a while I cuddled Ada while she
clicked through some of these photos. It was both interesting and fun
as Ada told me which photos she liked and which she did not.
Ada writes:
I love how Michael is so open and honest with me - even to the extent of allowing me to see his porn collection.
I
know some girlfriends who don’t allow their partners to have or
to look at porn on the Internet. I wonder about and don’t agree
with this restrictiveness. I wanted to see Michael’s taste in
porn and also to reassure him that I didn’t mind that he had such
a collection.
I know on outings when Michael is highly energized
he looks and appreciates other womanly forms (but always discreetly so
that I wouldn’t notice) and I have always wondered at his taste
and what attracts him. Looking at his porn was a sure way to find this
out.
In
a way I also felt a bit vulnerable as she looked at these photos
because they are not just a random collection, but only those photos
that I had liked enough to save to my iPhoto collection. So looking at
these photos was saying a lot about my tastes and fantasies.
Sitting
naked next to my Princess as she looked at these photos was rather
different. At one stage Ada gently played with my Desire as we looked,
and a bit later she had her hand on my balls as I gently touched myself.
After a while she had had enough of the photos, and this little adventure ended.
It was my turn to cook dinner, so I went into the kitchen to start.
As
I prepared dinner Ada sat at the kitchen bench and talked with me. I very much
felt my Affirmation as she watched her naked Knight in the kitchen.
Ada comments:
When
Michael's cooking I sometimes sit at the breakfast bench to keep him
company. Sometimes I very much notice he is nude. I have asked him what
he thinks he has to do differently when cooking nude compared to
cooking while clothed.
But as Affirmation has become our normal, generally I don't think I notice anymore that Michael is naked.
As
we sat at the table eating dinner I suggested to Ada that our sitting at the table would make
a very Devotional photo due to my being naked while she was fully
dressed.
Ada continues:
Sitting
at the table means I can't see Michael below his chest, so it just looks like
he’s not wearing a top during dinner.
Michael did mention that anyone who
saw us having dinner (with him naked and me fully clothed) would notice
the difference instantly, but really, I don’t think about it anymore.
Michael comments:It s not a surprise that Ada and I feel differently about our Affirmation time.My high erotic energy means that I keep noticing that I am naked, and this has me feeling that I am Ada's Knight. So for me Affirmation is an erotic event.It is always Ada's decision to say "Reveal",
and I can tell that she very much enjoys the start of our Affirmation.
And, as mentioned throughout this Blog, there are little things that
happen during our Affirmation that shows that she enjoys having her
Knight naked and feeling hers.
But she does not have the same
constant erotic energy that I do, and so for her it is natural that
there are long periods during Affirmation when for her our Affirmation
time is not an erotic event.
With
Devotional Sex a Knight always has some erotic energy and thus wants to
do a Devotional activity. Of course a Princess decides when activities
happen, and most of the time she does not want to be doing a Devotional
activity. Affirmation works very well because, as shown by Ada's
comments, this can be an activity which most of the time she does not
even notice, and yet it remains a very noticed erotic activity for her
Knight.
The other factor about Affirmation which I am sure that Ada has noticed is that Affirmation keeps our Devotional dynamic
active, and has me being her well behaved and eager Knight. Affirmation
keeps me `warmed up´ so that when she wants another activity I am
already in Knight mode.
When I first told Ada about Devotional Sex during our early dates I had told her about the Reveal command, and that I would obey this whenever she wished. And I had told her how Affirmation
is a powerful way to set a mood. Of course I had hoped that Ada would
sometimes say Reveal, and that we would sometimes enjoy some
Affirmation time together before other activities.
But I never
suspected that Ada would choose to make Affirmation our normal way of
being together. I had never done anything like this before with a
previous partner, so this experiment was new to me.
For both
of us this experiment has worked very well. Ada could have ended it
anytime (by not saying Reveal), and if I had not enjoyed it I would
have told Ada about this, and she might have taken my views into
consideration and not done Affirmation as often.
One of the
reasons it has worked so well is that Ada can enjoy making me her
Knight as soon as we are alone together, and she can enjoy me feeling
that I am her Knight, but having done so she can then relax and just
think of my nudity as being our normal.
Ada replies to this comment:
Very nicely put.
After dinner we sat down to watch the News and then a DVD. The DVD was a Japanese Manga DVD, Wicked City. What is unusual with this sort of DVD is not only the violence, but the sexual explicitness of these `cartoons´.
After this we watched the beginning of a much milder DVD.
Ada
was starting to fall asleep, so she decided she had had enough TV
watching and wanted to go to bed. Though it was very early for me, I of
course went to bed with her. As always it was nice to cuddle her.
Talking
in bed Ada told me that during the sexual parts of the Manga DVD she
had been a bit turned on and as she was watching she had wanted to have
sex with me.
Naturally I said that I would be very happy to give her a Pleasure Kiss or some Joy now.
Ada was tired, and said "just a Blissette now. I don't want a Pleasure Kiss or an orgasm. Just some Joy."
Ada writes:
I’m not usually a night person so when I thought it would be nice to enjoy a little Joy I knew that tonight it was going to be for just a short while and that I probably wouldn’t want to cum.
She
had got into bed wearing her panties, so I asked her if she wanted me
to Unwrap her. She agreed, and it was nice to take her panties off. She
didn't want any preliminaries, and so I put on a condom.
She wanted me to enter her in the Power position as "we have not done that for a while".
I was very hard, and it was easy to enter her. It felt great.
This was the closest I had felt to normal intercourse for a long time, and Ada was enjoying what I was doing.
After a few minutes Ada asked me to stop.
I pulled out as instructed, and asked if we could continue in the Cuddle position.
I was very pleased when Ada said "OK", and very quickly I was inside
her again. Ada asked me to be gentle, and I had to slow down. I love
being able to hold her breast in this position.
I
was really enjoy all this Joy, and unusually for me I was feeling that
it would be natural to cum at the end, but Ada then said that was all.
She had warned me that tonight would be "just a Blissette", and unfortunately that is all that she allowed.
When
I pulled out I was still very horny, but it was clear that this was it.
Ada did not even roll over to give me a Devotional Cuddle at the end.
After her Joy in the Cuddle position she was ready for sleep.
Ada writes:
When I said that I had had enough Joy for the night, I was a tiny, wee bit disgruntled that Michael wanted to keep going.
I know he was enjoying himself, and he had probably hoped our little Blissette was going to turn into Bliss.
A
few times before something quick had turned into a longer
session, and so I was half inclined to keep on going for his sake.
But I think he quickly realized or remembered that I had said
that tonight would only be a Blissette, and he quickly stopped asking
for more, and ended our little interlude of Joy as I wanted.
There
is one thing much worse than having a Blissette that ends far too soon
and leaves me feeling that I want more. That is not even getting a
Blissette.
So as a Knight I have learned to be very thankful for Blissettes as a very nice bit of extra sexual activity.
I
know that if Ada had felt that a Blissette would mean she had to engage
in longer sexual activity then not only would I have not got to enjoy
longer sexual activity, but there would have been no Blissette.
As it was far
too early for me to go to sleep, and as Ada was just about to drop off,
I got up and came back into the living room to type up this entry.
I'm
not sure whether or not Ada would approve (and I guess I shall find out
when she reads this entry), but it felt to me that as Ada is asleep my
Affirmation had ended, so as I write this I am wearing shorts and a
shirt.
When Ada read the above she said that she didn't mind as it is staring to get chilly some nights.
Now to edit and write more of some of the earlier
entires. And when that is done I shall undress and crawl into bed with
my Princess. There is always a small chance that she will wake up and
feel like a bit of fun.
And if not later tonight, then I shall see what
pleasures tomorrow morning shall bring.
When I got into bed Ada stirred enough to enjoy a very sleepy cuddle, but that was all.
Hopefully tomorrow morning will bring a few pleasures (to us both).
