Enhancements
Chapter 13: Enhancements | Open Communication | List of Enhancements
The Knight wearing a special item
when in public together
when in public together
When
out in public together a Knight can sometimes be required to wear a
special item. This can be even more powerful if wearing the item is
given a special meaning.
The Knight can also be made to wear an item all day, including, for example, while he is at work.
The Knight can also be made to wear an item all day, including, for example, while he is at work.
Some couples may find it a fun and powerful game to have an erotic component to being out in public together. One easy way of doing this is to have the Knight wear something special under his clothing. To everyone else he appears normal. But his Princess knows what he is wearing underneath, and her Knight not only knows, but often can feel what he is wearing.
A Knight having to wear a special item is an example where a simple instruction from a Princess can have a very strong and long-lasting effect on her Knight. He would be extremely aware all of the time of his having to wear some of the items suggested below!
For the Princess the effect is not nearly as strong, and at times she may even forget that he is wearing something special. But when she does think of it, she may very much enjoy watching the results.
Devotional Sex is fully consensual, so this enhancement can only happen if both are willing to try it.
The items, and their possible meaning
The item chosen will effect the dynamic of how the Devotee's interaction feels. The meanings given to wearing each item are only my suggestions. Couples may find that for an item a very different meaning works better for them.
Possible items, and my suggested meaning, are:
- Having
him wear a male G-string would not be too different, but would have the
effect on him of his Princess having given him an instruction. This instruction is
perhaps suggestive of an evening that will be fairly normal (ie not
kinky).
One option that can work well is a Princess setting a rule that her Knight must always wear a G-string when with her, and must wear ordinary underpants when not with her. For the Knight the different feel of wearing a G-string then becomes part of the feel of being with his Princess. And having to manage which type of underpants he is wearing becomes a part of him being her Knight.Of course common sense would prevail, and under this rule the Knight would put on ordinary underwear when he got up on a work day (even though he is with his Princess for a short time in the morning), and if he showers sometime after arriving back from work, he would put on the G-string after his shower rather than as soon as he got home. - Having
him wear ladies panties (for a Knight willing to do this) would have a
very strong feeling of him being controlled by his Princess. The
tightness around his Desire and balls might be felt as the Princess
saying that "tonight your Desire is unimportant, and I want you
thinking of my Pleasure."
Because a male having to wear panties is such a powerful act, this is further explored as a separate enhancement here. - Painting the Knight's toenails
can be done for just a short time if the nail polish is removed
immediately after the outing, or it can be something that the Knight
has to wear for several few days. Even though no-on other than he and
his Princess will know that his toenails are painted, he will feel very
aware that they are, and this is suggestive of him being very much
under the power of his Princess. Painted
toenails may be outside a Knight's limits (ie he does not have to do
this) if his naked feet will be seen by normal people during the day
(eg at a beach, at a pool, getting changed at a sporting event).
- Having
him wear a cock ring or cock strap
(a leather strap that is like a cock ring except the ends buckle
together enabling the strap to be either loose or tight) would have him
focus on his Desire.
Perhaps this would be suggestive of a night where he will be on Display.
- Having
him wear a cock-lead (a strap that goes around his Desire and Balls, to
which a short chain is attached, the end of which can go over his
trouser top and into his pocket, and which can then be held and tugged by his Princess) would be suggestive of a Princess who
is very much taking control.
- Having him wear a small butt plug (for a Knight willing to do this) would be very challenging for the Knight as it would at times be uncomfortable. So this is suggestive of a Knight who will have to suffer to please his Princess. It makes the Knight prove that his is willing to do this for his Princess.
"Wear the cock-lead tonight when we go out for dinner - I want you to feel under my control!"
Of course she can give a different meaning from those suggested above, and giving the command to wear something is the perfect time to say that meaning.
And if wearing an item starts to mean something to a Knight, his responsibility to his Princess to communicate openly means that he should tell his Princess how he feels.
The Dress command
The Dress command can be used when a Princess has a favorite item she likes her Knight to wear.
Once she has specified which item is meant by the command, from then on she only needs to say, for example, "Dress for dinner".
Keeping her Knight happy
When a Knight has high erotic energy, he very much likes to feel that Devotional Sex if part of his life. On the other hand, his Princess is unlikely to want to actively engage in Devotional Sex activities all the time.
Because it can be easy for a Princess to `set and forget´, making her Knight wear something special can be a very easy and effective way of giving a wanting Knight a sexual component to an outing. By giving him a sexual component, and making him feel under her control, her Knight is then more likely to behave.
Of course the rewards to the Princess for keeping her Knight happy will happen later when she decides to make use of his energy and desire to please her.
Making this a ritual
A Princess can turn this enhancement into a ritual by setting a rule that her Knight must always wear a specified item under the specified circumstances.
For example, she could tell her Knight that "whenever we go out together on a weekend evening I want you to wear ladies panties".
Making this enhancement a ritual is further discussed in Chapter 11: Rituals and Ceremonies, here.
