What can happen during a Devotional Sex party
What can happen during a Devotional Sex party | A Devotional Sex party
Devotional Sex with other people | Chapter 12: Other People
Just an interesting dynamic
As said in the overview of a Devotional Sex party,
you can agree to attend a party even if you don't intend to do
anything at the party. You can even offer to host a party without intending to do anything at your own party.
If everyone at a party does not want to do anything, then the party will just be an interesting dynamic.
If everyone at a party does not want to do anything, then the party will just be an interesting dynamic.
For example, if a Devotee couple invite another Devotee couple back to their place, they may suggest allowing Devotional Sex party rules to apply, and their guests may accept.
The hosts may have had no intention of doing anything themselves, but suggested a party to give their guests the freedom to act as a Princess and her Knight in front of them if they wished to to so.
And the guests may have agreed to party rules not because they wanted to do anything themselves, but because they don't mind (or would like to see) their hosts acting as a Princess and her Knight in their presence.
A
couple not wanting to do anything may be because, even though the
Knight has consented to attend a Devotional Sex party, he has not
consented to being made to do anything at a party.
Or it could be that a Princess, though willing to attend and observe others, (and perhaps whose Knight has not only consented to do things, but would really like to do things), does not want her or her Knight to do anything.
Or it could be that a Princess, though willing to attend and observe others, (and perhaps whose Knight has not only consented to do things, but would really like to do things), does not want her or her Knight to do anything.
The first thing that is encouraged in the default rules is to sit in a way which shows the dynamic is active, for example, a Knight sitting at the feet of his Princess.
This is encouraged because it shows that the couple have an active Devotional dynamic, and that they are at the party as a Princess and her Knight. Sitting this way creates at least a slight feeling for everyone that something might happen.
A couple that does not want to do anything are also encouraged to show their dynamic in the way that they sit because it is then easier for others to do something as they will feel that they are being observed by a Princess and her Knight rather than by an ordinary couple.
Sitting in a way which shows the dynamic is either a good preparation for doing something, or a good way for couple who don't want to do anything to show that they are also a part of the Devotional feel of the party.
At the beginning of a party, whether sitting in a way that shows the dynamic or sitting normally, each Princess who does not want to do anything (or not do anything to start with) will feel relaxed and comfortable that they will not do anything because what they do is their decision.
They can tell their Knight to do something, but no-one can tell them to do anything.
A Princess may feel a mix of emotions though, as she wonders whether or not the other couple will do anything. Especially with the first time, the opportunity to watch another couple enjoy some `living room Devotional activities´ is likely to feel exciting but also create a few nerves.
If a Knight can be told to do things by his Princess at a party, he will also be feeling a mix of nerves and excitement as he knows that if his Princess issues a command he will have to obey.
It
is always more fun for a Princess who does not want to do anything not
to tell this to her Knight. This both makes it easier for her to later
change her mind, and leaves her Knight feeling under her power even though nothing happens.
For a Knight attending a Devotional Sex party will always feel special because he knows that, within his pre-discussed limits, he must do whatever his Princess says.
Everyone else at the party also knows that each Knight is at the whim of their Princess, and this can be a fun and powerful dynamic for everyone.
In this situation, having agreed to have a Devotional Sex party has not led to doing or watching any normally private activities. But it has created an interesting and fun dynamic that is felt by all in the room.
Note that within Devotional Sex it is usually OK to suggest something because the person with the power can so easily and comfortably say no.
So in the above situation it would be OK for a Princess to say "Even though I don't want to do anything, or at least not yet, it would be fun to watch you. So if you feel liked doing anything, please do."
The Princess of the other couple has full power over what they do, so she can feel comfortable replying "I don't feel like doing anything just yet either, so let's just talk for a while."
A good thing about saying you would like to watch the other couple is that if the other Princess was wanting to do something, but was held back by not being sure that the other couple were ready, the request may give her the confidence to start an activity.
Those relaxed about their own enjoyment of Devotional Sex, and relaxed about the idea of seeing other people enjoying Devotional Sex, may decide that whenever they get together with other Devotee's that Devotional Sex party rules apply.
As well as giving everyone the freedom to do what is allowed within the rules, under the default rules everyone also has the freedom to do nothing.
Even when nothing much happens at a Devotional Sex party, all those present may very much enjoy the feelings of freedom and liberation that if they wanted, things could happen.
