Chapter 12: Other People
This chapter looks at Devotional Sex
in terms of people outside the primary Devotional Sex relationship.
Involving others can range from simply talking about Devotional Sex
with a third party to practicing it in a group.
This chapter is relevant to everyone who practices Devotional Sex because you and your partner need to agree on whether or not you can talk about it with other people; and because all couples need to deal honestly with the possibility of attraction outside of their relationship.
While the group activities described in this chapter will not be of interest to everyone, more adventurous Devotees may find them extremely liberating and enjoyable.
To ensure that one person does not upset and embarrass the other, Devotee couples need to establish guidelines for talking about Devotional Sex with other people.
Of course, one possibility is that you will both agree never to talk about it with anyone else.
But because Devotional Sex is so much fun, and as it starts to become part of your lifestyle and who you are, you may find that you very much want to talk about it with others, particularly close friends. (More)
One of the ways we relax is by spending time with friends. And when we relax we like to be ourselves.
Because practicing Devotional Sex creates a stronger intimacy and connection between Devotees, you may sometimes want to enjoy being a `loving couple´ when with friends.
In this situation a Princess can use her power, without her friends necessarily knowing, to control an overly keen Knight or to direct her Knight to do something. (More)
The myth of perfect monogamy is so embedded in our culture that we tend to ignore the reality that most people in a long-term relationship will at some stage be attracted to another person.
This section examines attraction outside the relationship, and shows that facing this possibility honestly can build a stronger relationship based on reality rather than fantasy. (More)
The Devotional Sex Forum is the place to comment on, ask questions about, and to discuss the contents of this chapter. Guests can read the forum, but you must register to become a member of the forum before you can post.
This chapter has two discussion groups. The first is for monogamous couples to discuss the issues raised above. This discussion group is here.
If the topic you wish to discuss is there, please post in that topic. Otherwise click 'New Topic' to start a new discussion.
In mainstream society, couples are usually either very chaste when other people are present or they go to the other extreme and engage in full sexual activities with others (eg at a swingers party).
Devotional Sex opens up the very exciting and liberating middle ground.
It can be lots of fun to share and explore fantasies about activities with others, and this can be done even if a Princess intends to go no further than just talk.
And if you are interested in going further, the essential first steps are some open communication and to both agree on which activities are allowed, and what is not allowed, when you are with others.
This section presents many Devotional activities with others, including informal fun with friends, a Devotional Sex party, putting on a Devotional Sex show, a couple having a Devotional Friend, Knight lending and swapping, Devotional Sex orgies, and group celebration of Tantric Devotion.
Whether the things you do with others are mild or wild, they may be some of the most fun and exciting activities you do as a couple.
This chapter is relevant to everyone who practices Devotional Sex because you and your partner need to agree on whether or not you can talk about it with other people; and because all couples need to deal honestly with the possibility of attraction outside of their relationship.
While the group activities described in this chapter will not be of interest to everyone, more adventurous Devotees may find them extremely liberating and enjoyable.
Talking about Devotional Sex with other people
To ensure that one person does not upset and embarrass the other, Devotee couples need to establish guidelines for talking about Devotional Sex with other people.
Of course, one possibility is that you will both agree never to talk about it with anyone else.
But because Devotional Sex is so much fun, and as it starts to become part of your lifestyle and who you are, you may find that you very much want to talk about it with others, particularly close friends. (More)
Being a loving couple when with friends
One of the ways we relax is by spending time with friends. And when we relax we like to be ourselves.
Because practicing Devotional Sex creates a stronger intimacy and connection between Devotees, you may sometimes want to enjoy being a `loving couple´ when with friends.
In this situation a Princess can use her power, without her friends necessarily knowing, to control an overly keen Knight or to direct her Knight to do something. (More)
Attraction outside of your relationship
The myth of perfect monogamy is so embedded in our culture that we tend to ignore the reality that most people in a long-term relationship will at some stage be attracted to another person.
This section examines attraction outside the relationship, and shows that facing this possibility honestly can build a stronger relationship based on reality rather than fantasy. (More)
The Devotional Sex Forum is the place to comment on, ask questions about, and to discuss the contents of this chapter. Guests can read the forum, but you must register to become a member of the forum before you can post.
This chapter has two discussion groups. The first is for monogamous couples to discuss the issues raised above. This discussion group is here.
If the topic you wish to discuss is there, please post in that topic. Otherwise click 'New Topic' to start a new discussion.
Enjoying erotic energy when with other people
In mainstream society, couples are usually either very chaste when other people are present or they go to the other extreme and engage in full sexual activities with others (eg at a swingers party).
Devotional Sex opens up the very exciting and liberating middle ground.
It can be lots of fun to share and explore fantasies about activities with others, and this can be done even if a Princess intends to go no further than just talk.
And if you are interested in going further, the essential first steps are some open communication and to both agree on which activities are allowed, and what is not allowed, when you are with others.
This section presents many Devotional activities with others, including informal fun with friends, a Devotional Sex party, putting on a Devotional Sex show, a couple having a Devotional Friend, Knight lending and swapping, Devotional Sex orgies, and group celebration of Tantric Devotion.
Whether the things you do with others are mild or wild, they may be some of the most fun and exciting activities you do as a couple.
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