If it feels right, the best way to proceed may be to make a big suggestion.
If the friend(s) accepts this suggestion then consent has been gained to have a big adventure.
And
if they think the suggestion is going to far (or too fast), all is not
lost because if you immediately suggest a milder alternative they may
accept this because it feels tame compared to the big suggestion.
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