If your friend(s) does not know about Devotional Sex, informal fun enables you to progress one step at a time until either the Princess or the friend does not want to go any further.

If your friends know about or practice Devotional Sex, suggesting a Devotional Sex Party (see the next section) is a quick way of gaining consent to be able to enjoy lots of Devotional Sex `living room activities´ in a social setting.

But even if your friends know about or practice Devotional Sex, you may prefer to start informally and see what happens.
 
 
As with all Devotional Sex, a Knight is committed to doing whatever his Princess requests as long as this is within his limits. Once his Princess knows his limits in regard to activities with or in front of other people, she decides what does and does not happen. (See the Communications and Setting Limits section.)

Even though the Princess decides what does and does not happen, if the Princess wishes, or allows, it can be her Knight who initiates and leads the conversation with the friends.

The friends should always feel welcome to make suggestions for what to do next. If they suggest something that the Princess does not want to do (or make her Knight do) this is fine, as she can veto the suggestion.
 
 

Most of the Devotional Sex activities with other people section talks about what you can do to make something happen. The other way to enjoy something in reality is to be open to any opportunities.

Perhaps it is your friend that initiates a conversation which may lead to some activities. Or perhaps you find yourself in a situation with a friend where the friend makes it clear that they are open to taking things further.

For most people, such opportunities do not happen very often, so when an opportunity does arise, be brave and see where it leads. (More)
 
 
  
  
If your friends know about your practice of Devotional Sex, even doing some mild `loving couple´ activities in front of them may feel very liberating and fun. (More)
 
 

It may be fun, educational, and create some mental intimacy, to play the Truth game - a game where the Knight must fully and openly answer all questions related to sex and Devotional Sex.

This game can be fun to play even if an interesting conversation is all that happens. A fun and powerful combination is to play the Truth game while also doing some mild activities. The game can also be used as a way of introducing the possibility of more explicit activities. (More)
 
 

Informal fun with friends can progress by making small steps and gaining consent each step of the way. This has the advantage that everyone can become comfortable with what is done at one step before thinking about moving a step further.

If either the Princess or the friend(s) don't want things to go very far, then the activities will remain mild. But even mild activities with others can be fun. And of course if both the Princess and the friend(s) feel adventurous (and what is proposed is within the Knight's limits), things can progress one step at a time to eventually become very adventurous.

Techniques that help things move forward include making things a game, sharing the power to make a next step happen, and talking about an activity in the abstract before it seems that the activity might happen. (More)
 
 

If it feels right, the best way to proceed may be to make a big suggestion.

If the friend(s) accepts this suggestion then consent has been gained to have a big adventure.

And if they think the suggestion is going to far (or too fast), all is not lost because if you immediately suggest a milder alternative they may accept this because it feels tame compared to the big suggestion. (More)
 
 

The fictional story of Susan having Sam Reveal in front of her friend Kate provides a realistic example of how informal fun with friends can move one step at a time.
 
 

You can discuss informal fun with friends at the Devotional Sex Forum here.