Devotional Sex activities with other people
Devotional Sex activities with other people | Chapter 12: Other People
Communication and limits
Good communication is an essential prerequisite for a couple who are considering exploring Devotional Sex with others.
The fantasy talk can include making a Knight set his limits for what he can be made to do when with others.
Setting limits can be a fun part of the fantasy talk because even if the Princess will never go this far (and even if her Knight does not expect her to go this far), both know that once a limit is set the Princess could go this far if she wanted.
If a Princess is considering making something happen in real life the talk will be extra fun for her because she knows that the talk may become more than just talk.
And if something might happen in real life one day, fantasy talk mentally prepares both the Princess and the Knight for how they might feel when it does happen.
Fantasy talk can be a fun enhancement to many common Devotional activities, and can be a good way to keep a Knight aroused when the Princess wants to enjoy some erotic resting. (More)
With the possibility of Devotional Sex with other people the Knight has a whole new set of limits to define. What does he consent to watch others doing? What does he consent to do in front of others? What activities will he do with others?
As well as defining what is allowed and not allowed, it is fun and beneficial to have the Knight rate how he feels about everything that is within his limits. This can be done using the 0 to 5 ratings scale.
As a Princess is devoted to her Knight, the setting of limits does not need to cover every possibility and it does not become a `legal document´. Mutual devotion and common sense always apply. (More)
Devotional Sex takes place within a relationship, and everything done within Devotional Sex is fully consensual. So for a Princess to do an activity with another person she needs her Knight's consent.
As with all Devotional Sex, the Knight sets these limits beforehand, and once set, his Princess is free to do as she wishes within these limits.
As well as saying what his Princess is allowed and not allowed to do, the Knight should rate how he feels about everything which is allowed. (More)
The Knight's freedom to explore fantasy with his Princess is balanced within Devotional Sex by the Princess's power to decide what, if anything, will actually happen.
Once a Knight has set his limits, his Princess has the power to make anything within these limits actually happen.
She may choose to never do anything in real-life, to only do some mild activities, to enjoy something more full-on (like a Devotional Sex party), or to surprise her Knight by doing some things that are only just within his limits.
If she never tells her Knight which activities she has decided to never do, her Knight is left with the possibility that one day these things might happen. This can create a fun dynamic which can be enjoyed by both. (More)
Doing some activities with others is very easy to be win-win if both the Princess and her Knight are keen on the idea.
But when one person is wanting to do activities with others, and their partner is not keen, finding a win-win solution is more difficult.
Devotional Sex enables it to become win-win because the less keen person can allow some things to happen as a reward to their partner.
The partner who gets some of their fantasy of doing things with others made real will, in return, now want to replay the reward. So the less keen person is rewarded both by making their partner happy and by getting some other reward in return. (More)
To enjoy some Devotional activities with other people you will first need to talk with your potential participant(s). And good communication is essential during any activities.
The way you think about what you are proposing, and the way you talk about this, will make a huge difference to how your potential participant will feel about what you say.
If you are relaxed and comfortable about what you are proposing, they are much more likely to accept your proposal. And if you approach people the right way, you can minimize the risk of causing offense. (More)
Some Princesses may prefer to leave it to their Knight to initiate and lead the discussion when they are with friends.
The Knight might be told that, if possible, he is to make some specified suggestions. Or a Princess may be happy for her Knight to make some suggestions on his own initiative. (More)
It can be lots of fun to
share and explore fantasies about activities with others, and this can
be done even if a Princess intends to go no further than just talk.
The fantasy talk can include making a Knight set his limits for what he can be made to do when with others.
Setting limits can be a fun part of the fantasy talk because even if the Princess will never go this far (and even if her Knight does not expect her to go this far), both know that once a limit is set the Princess could go this far if she wanted.
If a Princess is considering making something happen in real life the talk will be extra fun for her because she knows that the talk may become more than just talk.
And if something might happen in real life one day, fantasy talk mentally prepares both the Princess and the Knight for how they might feel when it does happen.
Fantasy talk can be a fun enhancement to many common Devotional activities, and can be a good way to keep a Knight aroused when the Princess wants to enjoy some erotic resting. (More)
If
you are interested in going further, the essential first steps are some
open communication and to both agree on which activities are allowed,
and what is not allowed,
when you are with others.
With the possibility of Devotional Sex with other people the Knight has a whole new set of limits to define. What does he consent to watch others doing? What does he consent to do in front of others? What activities will he do with others?
As well as defining what is allowed and not allowed, it is fun and beneficial to have the Knight rate how he feels about everything that is within his limits. This can be done using the 0 to 5 ratings scale.
As a Princess is devoted to her Knight, the setting of limits does not need to cover every possibility and it does not become a `legal document´. Mutual devotion and common sense always apply. (More)
There
is a possibility that if things go too far with others it will damage
the relationship. Thus setting clear limits beforehand is very
important. Not only must the Knight set his limits for what he can be
made to do when with others, but he can set limits for what his Princess is allowed to do with others.
Devotional Sex takes place within a relationship, and everything done within Devotional Sex is fully consensual. So for a Princess to do an activity with another person she needs her Knight's consent.
As with all Devotional Sex, the Knight sets these limits beforehand, and once set, his Princess is free to do as she wishes within these limits.
As well as saying what his Princess is allowed and not allowed to do, the Knight should rate how he feels about everything which is allowed. (More)
The Princess does not need to set any limits because when with others she has full control over what happens (as long as what happens stays within the limits set by her Knight and she has the consent of the other people present).
The Knight's freedom to explore fantasy with his Princess is balanced within Devotional Sex by the Princess's power to decide what, if anything, will actually happen.
Once a Knight has set his limits, his Princess has the power to make anything within these limits actually happen.
She may choose to never do anything in real-life, to only do some mild activities, to enjoy something more full-on (like a Devotional Sex party), or to surprise her Knight by doing some things that are only just within his limits.
If she never tells her Knight which activities she has decided to never do, her Knight is left with the possibility that one day these things might happen. This can create a fun dynamic which can be enjoyed by both. (More)
Devotional Sex can still be win-win even when one partner is not as keen to involve third parties as the other partner is.
Doing some activities with others is very easy to be win-win if both the Princess and her Knight are keen on the idea.
But when one person is wanting to do activities with others, and their partner is not keen, finding a win-win solution is more difficult.
Devotional Sex enables it to become win-win because the less keen person can allow some things to happen as a reward to their partner.
The partner who gets some of their fantasy of doing things with others made real will, in return, now want to replay the reward. So the less keen person is rewarded both by making their partner happy and by getting some other reward in return. (More)
To enjoy some Devotional activities with other people you will first need to talk with your potential participant(s). And good communication is essential during any activities.
The way you think about what you are proposing, and the way you talk about this, will make a huge difference to how your potential participant will feel about what you say.
If you are relaxed and comfortable about what you are proposing, they are much more likely to accept your proposal. And if you approach people the right way, you can minimize the risk of causing offense. (More)
Some Princesses may prefer to leave it to their Knight to initiate and lead the discussion when they are with friends.
The Knight might be told that, if possible, he is to make some specified suggestions. Or a Princess may be happy for her Knight to make some suggestions on his own initiative. (More)