The following problems may occur when you explore or live Devotional Sex.

Recognizing them early enables you to take remedial action before things become too bad.

 
When first exploring and learning about Devotional Sex both people must be open to the new pleasures available when things are done differently. If either are locked into the old ways then your exploration is unlikely to be successful. (More)
  

Devotional Sex thrives when both Devotees focus on the moment. If a Knight is distracted by wanting to move to the next step then this damages the dynamic for both Devotees.

Problems also arise when a Knight wants more than the Princess chooses for that session. (More)
  

Devotional Sex can have sessions where the only activity is the Knight giving pleasure to his Princess. Such sessions may be difficult for a Knight until he fully learns to enjoy giving pleasure. (More)
  

Devotional Sex only works when both Devotees enjoy their role. Part of the enjoyment of being a Princess is enjoying sensual and sexual pleasures. If a Princess does not take advantage of her Princess Power (and her eager Knight) to enjoy such pleasures, she may become less keen to continue with Devotional Sex. (More)
  

Even when a Knight is comfortable about not engaging in sexual activity, his higher than usual erotic energy (and possibly his erection) may leave his Princess feeling under pressure to start some sexual activity. (More)
  

A Princess can use Devotional Sex to create a very different lifestyle from before. Problems can arise if she does this faster than her Knight is able to comfortably adjust. (More)
  

Devotional Sex is powered by the Knight's erotic energy. Problems may arise if this energy is too high. (More)
  

Devotional Sex enables time to be spent enjoying intimacy, sensual pleasures, erotic relaxation and fun, and sexual pleasures. There are also times without any of these activities. Problems can arise when one person is not happy with the couple's mix of types of activities.

For example, a Knight might feel that there is too much sensual and not enough sexual activities. (More)
  

There is nothing wrong with some activities happening much more often than others if both Devotees are happy. A problem does arise when one person feels that an activity happens much too often or not often enough.

For example, A Knight might feel unhappy that he is giving oral sex much more often than he is receiving it.  (More)
   
Some couples will enjoy a high intensity power dynamic in their Devotee lifestyle, and others will only want a mild power dynamic. A problem can arise when one prefers mild and the other a stronger power dynamic. (More)
  

A man who enjoys Devotional Sex will usually spend many more hours erect each week than before. A side effect of all this extra excitement is that there are likely to be a few times when he would like to be erect but cannot get fully hard. (More)
  

A Knight must be able to control when he Climaxes. An accidental ejaculation instantly lowers his erotic energy, and will usually result in an early end to the session. It will also effect the next sessions as it may take some days for him to fully regain his erotic energy. (More)
  

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